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by befriend
Mon Apr 15, 2024 2:57 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Two eight fold paths
Replies: 5
Views: 181

Re: Two eight fold paths

So it's a matter of maturation within the noble 8 fold path someone following the noble 8 fold path still has thoughts of renunciation goodwill compassion right speech right action right livelihood right effort and right concentration. Is it more about what your goal is when you take up the practice...
by befriend
Sun Apr 14, 2024 2:33 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Two eight fold paths
Replies: 5
Views: 181

Two eight fold paths

I just read majjhima nikaya 117, it seems like there is an 8 fold path with effluents siding with merit and a noble 8 fold path that is transcendent. What makes them different?
by befriend
Fri Apr 12, 2024 9:19 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: What is this knowledge for?
Replies: 43
Views: 1136

Re: What is this knowledge for?

Studying the nikayas is a good way to create a healthy mental culture. As opposed to what societies tell us is good. Buddha tells us what is good. And we can reflect on the Teachings and how it is the truth of things. Then in daily life we can go about our day and when issues comes up we can remembe...
by befriend
Thu Mar 21, 2024 3:16 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Simplicity
Replies: 9
Views: 332

Re: Simplicity

Kudos. More simplicity in buddhism. Everything is Annica Dukkha Annata, and be kind.
by befriend
Mon Mar 18, 2024 4:46 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: If we can't control the five clinging-aggregate, how do we attain Nibbana?
Replies: 24
Views: 709

Re: If we can't control the five clinging-aggregate, how do we attain Nibbana?

This is what I don't understand also. how can good thoughts, generosity, good speech be not self if they accumulate into well being. Goodness builds up. So how can it be impermanent? If goodness were permanent, why is there a need to build it up? If things can be accumulated, are they permanent or ...
by befriend
Mon Mar 18, 2024 4:56 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: How can Annica Dukkha Annata exists with kamma vipaka?
Replies: 7
Views: 238

How can Annica Dukkha Annata exists with kamma vipaka?

How can Annica Dukkha Annata exists with kamma vipaka? Unless seeing the three characteristics stops kamma from being created??
by befriend
Mon Mar 18, 2024 4:48 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: If we can't control the five clinging-aggregate, how do we attain Nibbana?
Replies: 24
Views: 709

Re: If we can't control the five clinging-aggregate, how do we attain Nibbana?

This is what I don't understand also. how can good thoughts, generosity, good speech be not self if they accumulate into well being. Goodness builds up. So how can it be impermanent?
by befriend
Wed Mar 13, 2024 1:23 am
Forum: Early Buddhism
Topic: Ahara Sutta, Son's Flesh
Replies: 136
Views: 9612

Re: Ahara Sutta, Son's Flesh

Sex and good food literal food are a huge source of greed not sure if they are the strongest types of greed maybe rebirth in immaterial realms is. Repulsiveness of food is a common theme in the suttas. you can eat with greed or without greed. Eating with greed is wolfing down your meal because it's ...
by befriend
Sun Mar 10, 2024 1:31 am
Forum: Sīla
Topic: resentment
Replies: 11
Views: 822

Re: resentment

i googled unconditional love, and it said everyone makes mistakes and has flaws. this was a big eye opener for me, if everyone makes mistakes, non arahants, then you can still love people despite their mistakes. mistakes and flaws are part of everyone. unconditional love takes practice and patience ...
by befriend
Wed Mar 06, 2024 4:31 am
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: The relationship between kamma and sankharas
Replies: 12
Views: 285

Re: The relationship between kamma and sankharas

is kamma vipaka always about your next life?
by befriend
Sat Mar 02, 2024 7:28 pm
Forum: Wellness, Diet & Fitness
Topic: How i cured Depression
Replies: 8
Views: 601

Re: How i cured Depression

Tons of my anxiety goes away too when I spend 30 45 minutes in nature. The trick is to be aware of what your seeing hearing smelling feeling. The plants give off healing chemicals or something it's called forest bathing. Or the nature pill. I got a book on it it's a little different than mindfulness...
by befriend
Wed Feb 28, 2024 6:53 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Advice for Beginning Practice
Replies: 6
Views: 664

Re: Advice for Beginning Practice

Try replacing marijuana with a wholesome activity like reading suttas, exercize, practicing charity or start slowly with a mindfulness meditation. I'm trying to quit smoking cigarettes too I find it helps to roll your own to taper off real cigarettes, rolled cigarettes have less addictive quality in...
by befriend
Wed Feb 28, 2024 6:47 pm
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Differences of theravada and mahayana for the lay.
Replies: 2
Views: 356

Re: Differences of theravada and mahayana for the lay.

The late thich nhat hanh teaches original buddhism through a Mahayana lens he calls it. It's good stuff. Not complicated.
by befriend
Mon Feb 26, 2024 11:07 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: Your Dhamma Verses Here.
Replies: 16
Views: 953

Re: Your Dhamma Verses Here.

I will think kind thoughts about people I will not think bad thoughts about people or get angry I will benefit others as much as I can" Dalai Lama
by befriend
Sun Feb 25, 2024 3:20 am
Forum: General Theravāda Meditation
Topic: Gocara
Replies: 7
Views: 424

Re: Gocara

i think ajahn Lee means staying in a vihara dhamma is exclusively focusing on one kammathana. without insight its just samatha. for wisdom to arise one needs to see the impermanence of the five aggregates, not just watching the breath. if you spent your whole life contemplating the buddhas attribute...