Are you familiar with the Buddha's instructions in the Satipatthana Sutta?
You may find this of interest. In particularly the 3rd and 4th "frames of references" relating to (3) state of mind, and (4) experiences respectively.
"Do not force others, including children, by any means whatsoever, to adopt your views, whether by authority, threat, money, propaganda, or even education." - Ven. Thich Nhat Hanh
"Whether I were to preach in brief, Sāriputta, or whether I were to preach in detail, Sāriputta, or whether I were to preach both in brief or in detail, Sāriputta, rare are those who understand." (A I 333, Sāriputtasutta)