Do we get calmer?

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Do we get calmer?

Postby villkorkarma » Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:12 pm

Do we get calmer when we get rid of our compulsions? Are there persons there are calm and persons that are not so calm as they are?
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Re: Do we get calmer?

Postby Babadhari » Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:27 pm

do you feel calmer? when we are calmer we have more patience, we have less fear, less anger, our breathing is slower and our hearts dont beat as fast. this happens when we learn how to relax and not dwell on our troubles and worries. we have less tension and feel more peace.
we shouldnt put ourselves under pressure to achieve too much, day by day steadily improve by living as the Buddha taught and having good morality, doing no bad to others or ourselves.
Aflame with the fire of passion, the fire of aversion, the fire of delusion.
Aflame, with birth, aging & death, with sorrows, lamentations, pains, distresses, & despairs ......

Seeing thus, the disciple of the Noble One grows disenchanted. SN 35.28
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Re: Do we get calmer?

Postby Sam Vara » Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:35 pm

Do we get calmer when we get rid of our compulsions?


Yes, we do!
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Re: Do we get calmer?

Postby SarathW » Tue Feb 04, 2014 11:46 pm

Yes we do!
You can experience this yourself.
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Re: Do we get calmer?

Postby villkorkarma » Thu Feb 06, 2014 12:08 pm

kitztack wrote:we shouldnt put ourselves under pressure to achieve too much, day by day steadily improve by living as the Buddha taught and having good morality, doing no bad to others or ourselves.

That is correct. We shouldnt put ourselves under to much pressure to trying to achieve much. :) Still confusing, about how It come we have getting calmer but its the thougts and concepts that has been changed and dissapeared I Guess. And that you dont talk so much longer that makes a huge different. :goodpost:
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Re: Do we get calmer?

Postby villkorkarma » Wed Feb 12, 2014 9:21 pm

I readed a book by Alberto villoldo (schaman healing) they said that when you isnt so tired anymore the hindrances go away if you dont start to scare people and threat them.
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