jcsuperstar wrote:i was thinking about some of the disagreements on here. how some people dont trust some teachers who are well within mainstream theravada
that leaves one in a sort of mess. who do you trust?
i already know someone will say, the buddha, or yourself. but many people do that and land far off track so i'm not looking for that answer.
there are certain teachers i dig, Buddhadasa, Brahm, Chah, Sujato. i trust what they say. but yet i read from some that person a is wrong abotu topic B and person C is just wrong all the time.. whatever.
where does that leave us?
I think that trust is based on experience.
In the absence of coming to know a bit about a teacher, having a preconceived trust or distrust is unjustified -- best to be ambivalent. Once they've demonstrated themselves to be trustworthy or untrustworthy, through providing useful teachings and being moral, then they should be judged accordingly.
I think, though, that if you're looking for a saintly teacher who is 100% right about everything, never commits any wrongdoing, you might end up missing some very good teachers.
Above all, I think you can trust yourself, so long as that trust isn't betrayed. That is, above all, you should trust yourself to
not lie to yourself, to always expose these lies when they seem apparent, and yet to not let that stop you from trusting yourself again. Saddha (faith) doesn't simply mean an outward expression of belief in the suttas and the Buddha, but an inner feeling of self-confidence and self-esteem.
Cunda Sutta...each of you should remain with your self as an island, your self as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. Remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as your refuge, without anything else as a refuge. And how does a monk remain with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? How does he remain with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge? There is the case where a monk remains focused on the body in & of itself — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. He remains focused on feelings... mind... mental qualities in & of themselves — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. This is how a monk remains with his self as an island, his self as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge, with the Dhamma as an island, the Dhamma as his refuge, without anything else as a refuge.
This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
-Shakespeare's Hamlet
With metta

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