I presume you are asking about this:
Nacca-gīta-vādita-visūka-dassanā mālā-gandha-vilepana-dhāraṇa-maṇḍana-vibhūsanaṭṭhānā veramaṇī sikkhā-padaṃ samādiyāmi.
I undertake the training rule to refrain from dancing, singing, music, watching shows, wearing garlands, beautifying myself with perfumes & cosmetics.
In my opinion it's completely up to you. This is a renunciation precept, not a morality precept.
Ask yourself whether the talking you do with your family or the dhamma discussion is something like any of those things (the first four could be summarised as "entertainment").