Keep in mind that this is the path that works for me and I realize it might not be the best path for others.
I've struggled for so long to find what works and my path often became too complicated.
After a long time of struggling I came up with this and have found that it works:
1. Tell yourself to live your life as well as you can from now on. Treasure each moment and do the things that are 'right' for you. Learn and develop.
2. Hold mindfulness. Mindfulness of posture, body, thoughts, feelings, etc.
3. Recognize one of these three things (problems) when they arise:
- Ideas of I/me/mine and ideas of me performing an action
- Craving (yes, ANY form of wanting)
- Suffering
These three 'problems' always exist all at the same time or not at all. When there is an idea of I/me/mine and thus an idea that you are performing an action, there is craving and thus suffering, because you have become identified with an object. When there is suffering there is craving and when there is craving there has to be an identification with an object. Also, when there is craving, there is ALWAYS suffering. Some people don't realize this, but when there is craving, that means that the present moment is not good enough, which means there is suffering. So recognize these three things when they arise and remove the craving (and thus all three of them at the same time) by thinking 'this is delusion'. This is true because these things only happen when you are identified whith an object and dualistic thinking arises. This is always delusion, because you are not an object and thus 'you' cannot do anything. Don't try to become free of delusions, because then you create another delusion. Just think 'this is delusion' when you recognize one of these three problems and thus realize that 'you' cannot do anything. When you feel it is you saying 'this is delusion' you create another delusion, so recognize that as 'this is delusion' too. Now you will be back on the path. Practicing mindfulness is the key to recognize delusion. When mindfulness is gone, there is delusion. Remembering to live your life fully and right now is the key to mindfulness. Whenever craving is gone, you will always automatically do the thing that is 'right' for you, because there is nothing else left to do.
That's it. No need for the rest of the eightfold path. I've found that trying to remember the eightfold path was too much for me and made things complicated. But by practicing life, holding mindfulness and removing delusions, the rest naturally follows. This works because of mindfulness, which is the key here.
When there is no mindfulness there has to be delusion. When there is mindfulness there can be no delusion, because you are mindful of objects, so you can never be identified with them. In other words: mindfulness IS enlightenment. Even just being aware of your breathing while a feeling or thought arises is enough to know that there is no delusion.
When done right, you will never have the feeling that you are the one doing the work. Things just happen.
Of course, before you will be willing and ready to start this path you will have to understand that there is no 'I' doing anything. Everything happens as it happens and you couldn't have made it happen any other way. Reading up on the 'three marks of existence' is enough to prepare you for this path.
Hopefully this will help some people. If this does not help you or if you believe this is not an effective path, I would like to know your thoughts on it.

