what the buddha taught

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Re: what the buddha taught

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kayy wrote:Maybe some people would tell me that by returning to my worldly attachments, I was just running away from my suffering, trying to find solace in impermanent things.

This is true.

But when you suffer from depression, and when you are suicidally depressed, it is simply not a viable option to delve into it. It is too dangerous: what lies further into depression but psychosis and possible suicide?

Distraction is really the only option (in the immediate term anyway). After... then you can deal with the underlying problems. But depressives need external support, distractions, family, friends, exercise, etc.
Most people come to Buddhism with a fault-finding mind, and they practice Buddhism with a fault-finding mind. When the dhamma teaches that there is something better than what we have, we start to see that there is something wrong in what we have... When the dhamma teaches stilling the mind, we wrestle the mind... No wonder that we suffer. :)

And the best part is that suffering Buddhists actually condition others for suffering too, with their involuntary way of expressing the dhamma. Because of this, it is paramount to keep in mind in every single moment that the true doctrine have one taste, the taste of freedom, just like the taste of salt in the ocean. That the true path is free from torture, free from groaning and free from suffering. If your experience differs, the problem is not with the dhamma, but the problem is that what you have is not the dhamma. If there is awareness regarding this in the mind, then there is a chance of discovering the true dhamma.
"Just as in the great ocean there is but one taste — the taste of salt — so in this Doctrine and Discipline there is but one taste — the taste of freedom"
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Ben wrote:
seanpdx wrote: And while tilt happily cites one particular scholar who does, in fact, accept the bulk of the canon as being authentic, he does a disservice in not citing contrary opinions from other scholars.
That's a cheap shot. If you want an alternative point of view Sean, I suggest you pull your finger out and back up your argument with citations yourself. Its not anyone else's responsibility except yours.
Actually, it wasn't a shot at all. Tilt is one of the few folks around here whose opinion I genuinely regard rather highly.
Gombrich is very highly regarded and considered by many as an authority.
Thank you. I'll look him up.
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Hi Sean

What are your motives for posting here?

I ask as a friend, not as a foe.

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'The Blessed One is the Teacher, I am a disciple. He is the one who knows, not I." - MN. 70 Kitagiri Sutta

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BlackBird wrote:Hi Sean

What are your motives for posting here?

I ask as a friend, not as a foe.

metta
Jack :heart:
Read my first two posts. My motive is to answer Katy's question objectively.

Of course, the topic has strayed somewhat since her OP, so I've since ended up sending her a PM.
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seanpdx wrote:]

In terms of objectivity, it's a disservice.
I am giving a considered opinion, which is not being objective: it is an opinion.
To practice? No, and not much, respectively. But I read the OP from an epistemological perspective, not merely the perspective of someone who wishes to practice. On the other hand... the case can be made that if one doesn't really know what the Buddha taught, then one doesn't really know whether one is practicing the Buddha's dhamma.
What the Buddha taught, what the tradition teaches. Since we cannot know with objective certainty what the Buddha taught, though I have studied at some length, in terms of practice, I do not get too terribly worried about it, but we can know pretty much what the tradition teaches, and that is workable.
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tiltbillings wrote:
seanpdx wrote:]

In terms of objectivity, it's a disservice.
I am giving a considered opinion, which is not being objective: it is an opinion.
To practice? No, and not much, respectively. But I read the OP from an epistemological perspective, not merely the perspective of someone who wishes to practice. On the other hand... the case can be made that if one doesn't really know what the Buddha taught, then one doesn't really know whether one is practicing the Buddha's dhamma.
What the Buddha taught, what the tradition teaches. Since we cannot know with objective certainty what the Buddha taught, though I have studied at some length, in terms of practice, I do not get too terribly worried about it, but we can know pretty much what the tradition teaches, and that is workable.
No doubt we know what the tradition teaches -- on that I don't disagree in the least bit. But let's face it... most of the responses she's likely to get here will be from the traditional perspective. A little variety is nice, n'est-ce pas?
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seanpdx wrote:
BlackBird wrote:Hi Sean

What are your motives for posting here?

I ask as a friend, not as a foe.

metta
Jack :heart:
Read my first two posts. My motive is to answer Katy's question objectively.

Of course, the topic has strayed somewhat since her OP, so I've since ended up sending her a PM.
I meant in general mate, sorry for not being clear.

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"For a disciple who has conviction in the Teacher's message & lives to penetrate it, what accords with the Dhamma is this:
'The Blessed One is the Teacher, I am a disciple. He is the one who knows, not I." - MN. 70 Kitagiri Sutta

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BlackBird wrote:
seanpdx wrote:
BlackBird wrote:Hi Sean

What are your motives for posting here?

I ask as a friend, not as a foe.

metta
Jack :heart:
Read my first two posts. My motive is to answer Katy's question objectively.

Of course, the topic has strayed somewhat since her OP, so I've since ended up sending her a PM.
I meant in general mate, sorry for not being clear.

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Jack :heart:
Kinda off-topic, eh? Perhaps that's a question more suitable for a PM?
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baratgab wrote:That the true path is free from torture, free from groaning and free from suffering.
Sorry...the path is full of torture, groaning, and suffering...it's only when one is liberated that these things are eliminated...then the path has been followed to the end (and the goal has been reached)...i.e. no more path...

My read anyway...
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Hi Sean,
seanpdx wrote:
tiltbillings wrote:
seanpdx wrote:And while tilt happily cites one particular scholar who does, in fact, accept the bulk of the canon as being authentic, he does a disservice in not citing contrary opinions from other scholars.
Disservice? Only in your opinion, which to misses the fact that what I was expressing is my opinion, which is nicely voiced by Gombrich.
In terms of objectivity, it's a disservice.
Well, why not cite some yourself then? Retro gave a link to Bhikkhu Sujato, who has his own particular slant on what he considers authentic and what he doesn't.

Here's Bhikhu Bodhi (In the Buddha's Words, page 9, from the PDF here: http://www.wisdompubs.org/Pages/display ... yValue=104)
Even though we can detect clear signs of historical development between
different portions of the canon, this alignment with a single school
gives the texts a certain degree of uniformity. Among the texts stemming
from the same period, we can even speak of a homogeneity of
contents, a single flavor underlying the manifold expressions of the
doctrine. This homogeneity is most evident in the four Nikayas and the
older parts of the fifth Nikaya and gives us reason to believe that with
these texts—allowing for the qualification expressed above, that they
have counterparts in other extinct Buddhist schools—we have reached
the most ancient stratum of Buddhist literature discoverable.
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appicchato wrote:
baratgab wrote:That the true path is free from torture, free from groaning and free from suffering.
Sorry...the path is full of torture, groaning, and suffering...it's only when one is liberated that these things are eliminated...then the path has been followed to the end (and the goal has been reached)...i.e. no more path...

My read anyway...
Yes, Bhante, if you define the path as the aggregate of experiences, you are quite right, and I agree. :smile: I just referred to the influence of the dhamma as the path, which should always bring ease to the mind, and not burden. Or at least this is what I am confident in, based on the "elephant's footprint" concept of the Four Noble Truths. My impression is that practitioners are fallible to slipping into a borderline case of the false Jain view that suffering in and of itself is of a value in attaining liberation.

Downright self-torture is rare, of course, but I see all the time the phenomena of not taking up reachable spiritual happiness, which can be seen as a quality of holding onto inferior states, suffering. And since we see the roots of suffering in the defilements, this can be seen as a quality of holding onto the defilements. Undoubtedly, with a less happy mind one have a much harder time being mindful, being upright and being compassionate towards other beings. In the meditation practice it is common that the meditators deny themselves (actively or passively) the bliss that is born from stillness and seclusion. I can't reconcile these things with the path, and I think that our traditions should pay more attention to encouraging spiritual happiness. But of course these are just my own reflections; they can be completely wrong...
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tiltbillings wrote:Katy,

In reading through your response to me and your “depression” msg, I think I see what you are struggling with. One teacher that I had would say: Keep it light and easy. Do not get so grim about it. Part of the problem is that you are looking at texts that are directed at monastics, and the Buddha can be quite uncompromising in his exhortation to the monks and nuns. It is context and to whom these texts are addressed that is actually quite important to consider. You are not a monastic, so do not have take that level of practice as a model for your practice. There is no need for it.

I would strongly suggest backing off more than a bit from the stuff that is depressing you, that you find difficult. Just give yourself some space. There is really nice book out there by Jack Kornfield called A PATH WITH HEART. He is a very, very experienced teacher. This book, which is the result of his years of teaching, is well worth spending with. It will help you get some balance dealing with these issues. I would strongly recommend it.

tilt

Hi Tilt - I read your message earlier on today and the word "grim" made me laugh. Because I do take things quite grimly, and I guess I need to lighten up about it and take things slowly. Definitely.

Thanks for the book recommendation. I like Jack Kornfield a lot. I like his soft voice and his eyes. Is that a good enough set of criteria for buying a book? I think so... I'll give it a go! :reading:

Best wishes to you,

Katy
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baratgab wrote:
kayy wrote:Maybe some people would tell me that by returning to my worldly attachments, I was just running away from my suffering, trying to find solace in impermanent things.

This is true.

But when you suffer from depression, and when you are suicidally depressed, it is simply not a viable option to delve into it. It is too dangerous: what lies further into depression but psychosis and possible suicide?

Distraction is really the only option (in the immediate term anyway). After... then you can deal with the underlying problems. But depressives need external support, distractions, family, friends, exercise, etc.
Most people come to Buddhism with a fault-finding mind, and they practice Buddhism with a fault-finding mind. When the dhamma teaches that there is something better than what we have, we start to see that there is something wrong in what we have... When the dhamma teaches stilling the mind, we wrestle the mind... No wonder that we suffer. :)

And the best part is that suffering Buddhists actually condition others for suffering too, with their involuntary way of expressing the dhamma. Because of this, it is paramount to keep in mind in every single moment that the true doctrine have one taste, the taste of freedom, just like the taste of salt in the ocean. That the true path is free from torture, free from groaning and free from suffering. If your experience differs, the problem is not with the dhamma, but the problem is that what you have is not the dhamma. If there is awareness regarding this in the mind, then there is a chance of discovering the true dhamma.

Basically, if it's making me miserable it's probably cos it's not the Dhamma?

I think you're right.

It's true about the fault-finding mind thing. I'm beginning to realise that I've approached Buddhism in the same way as I approach anything, and it's not in Buddhism as a concept, or in reading, or thinking, or anything external that we call "Buddhism" that I'm going to become happier. It's in changing my own mind.

Thanks baratgab for your thoughts. It's much appreciated.

Best wishes

Katy
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Apologies to all for the slight detour into depression and whatnot...!

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kayy wrote:Maybe some people would tell me that by returning to my worldly attachments, I was just running away from my suffering, trying to find solace in impermanent things.

This is true.

But when you suffer from depression, and when you are suicidally depressed, it is simply not a viable option to delve into it. It is too dangerous: what lies further into depression but psychosis and possible suicide?

Distraction is really the only option (in the immediate term anyway). After... then you can deal with the underlying problems. But depressives need external support, distractions, family, friends, exercise, etc.
Oh certainly don't give it all up, Katy. If you want to become a monk and renounce, that is one way to go, but it is not the only way to go, and some people may not be suited to it; or may not be ready for it now and will be later.

Most of us householders will tell you that we find our involvement in life very good for our Buddhist practice. It seems even the Buddha thought it would be easier to "give it all up" cold turkey, just go off in the woods and meditate, but he didn't say everyone needed to do it.

It's not about not caring about people, or not being involved in hobbies, or even giving up all material wealth, it's about how you relate to these. You can still be a part of the world, offer kindness, love, experience joy, and make a difference in the world.

Someday, when we are ready to renounce, we will. Until then you may find your practice enriches your life and the lives of those around you.

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