Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

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Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Sacha G » Thu Jan 20, 2011 11:23 am

Hi
I wonder whether women might be more gifted than men for spiritual life.
I seen 3 reasons why this would be the case:
1°) They seem more attracted to anything spiritual
2°) They seem to know their inner life and their emotions better
3°) They seem to have less sexual desire (which is not a small obstacle)

Now, it's true that they seem to have stronger emotions, or to put it another way, strong kleshas. It's also a fact that they tend to suffer of depression twice as men.

What do you think?
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Individual » Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:44 pm

No
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby andre9999 » Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:55 pm

Yes, but they're horrible drivers.

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby PeterB » Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:59 pm

They seem to have less sexual desire ? How quaint...What a sheltered life you must lead Sacha G...

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby meindzai » Thu Jan 20, 2011 1:06 pm

Most of these can be explained more in cultural terms than gender terms.

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby plwk » Thu Jan 20, 2011 1:07 pm

Meet my sister.....and you'll find out... :jumping:
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If this single thing is recollected and made much,
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby nobody12345 » Thu Jan 20, 2011 1:28 pm

No.
Meet more women.
Your opinion will change.
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby unspoken » Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:30 pm

Men, did much bad things, rebirth fall into female
Women, did much good things, rebirth rise into male

Balance

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby kirk5a » Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:41 pm

I think this is something better to not form opinions about, as it tends towards discord. Please read some of the things present day Bhikkunis have said about this matter, it can be quite hurtful to even indirectly suggest which sex might be better suited, more gifted, superior, etc.
"When one thing is practiced & pursued, ignorance is abandoned, clear knowing arises, the conceit 'I am' is abandoned, latent tendencies are uprooted, fetters are abandoned. Which one thing? Mindfulness immersed in the body." -AN 1.230

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby PeterB » Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:47 pm

unspoken wrote:Men, did much bad things, rebirth fall into female
Women, did much good things, rebirth rise into male

Balance

Are you actually serious ?

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Nibbida » Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:48 pm

Women have more depression, but men have more addiction. Both women and men have both addictions and depression. Any differences we can find (through statistics, not assumptions) are only ones of averages. There is far more overlap than difference. I did see one study that showed that women tend to pray in more of a deep meditative way than men, again on average. But there are plenty of men who meditate their butts off and plenty of women with no interest in it.

It interesting to ask the question, but I guess there's just an inherent danger in trying to reach conclusions by generalizing across broad categories such as men and women (and not to mention sexual orientation, transgender, intergender, intersex, etc.)
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Nibbida » Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:49 pm

unspoken wrote:Men, did much bad things, rebirth fall into female
Women, did much good things, rebirth rise into male

Balance


Man smart, woman smarter.

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby ground » Thu Jan 20, 2011 7:01 pm

Sacha G wrote:What do you think?
:popcorn:


That irrelevant speculation seems to be to your liking.

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Sacha G » Thu Jan 20, 2011 7:35 pm

Thank you for opening my eyes Tmingyur.
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby clw_uk » Thu Jan 20, 2011 10:26 pm

unspoken wrote:Men, did much bad things, rebirth fall into female
Women, did much good things, rebirth rise into male

Balance



And evidence for such an extraordinary claim please?
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Calahand » Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:28 am

Sacha G wrote:Hi
I wonder whether women might be more gifted than men for spiritual life.
I seen 3 reasons why this would be the case:
1°) They seem more attracted to anything spiritual
2°) They seem to know their inner life and their emotions better
3°) They seem to have less sexual desire (which is not a small obstacle)

Now, it's true that they seem to have stronger emotions, or to put it another way, strong kleshas. It's also a fact that they tend to suffer of depression twice as men.

What do you think?
:popcorn:

Alright, alright, I want to speak my mind and let y'all know what the deal is here,
I think as a guy, you end up taking alot of B.S. from alot of people. Like when I was a schoolboy back in India, the teachers would beat you up for not doing the homework but they would leave girls alone because they cry when you start yelling. In america, the nerdy girls weren't beaten up as often as the nerdy boys back in junior high. Even now, naturally the male boss is more friendlier towards women inferiors, while female bosses are actually biased against you at times. Sometimes women don't trust you, you might be the nicest guy there is on the planet , yet the females are such that they won't trust you. The girls are generally more sheltered, especially indian girls who only care about spending their daddy's money and living a good life while you are struggling your ass off putting yourself through school, working 12+ hours a day, taking loan after loan struggling to make something of yourself- AND whats worse? when you actually do take the girl out (who spends her daddy's money) , she wants to spend yours! hahaha, sheesh, she won't even pay for your fricking gas, or soda or anything, you have to spend your hard earned money to take her out while she holds on to her daddy's money. Some young women get treated like royalty, Yes, i am jealous of women lol. :tongue:

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Ngawang Drolma. » Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:48 am

PeterB wrote:They seem to have less sexual desire ? How quaint...What a sheltered life you must lead Sacha G...

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby Viscid » Fri Jan 21, 2011 12:49 am

Women have less of an ego to get in the way of their pursuit.
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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby unspoken » Fri Jan 21, 2011 10:06 am

clw_uk,

Not everything must be inside the context. As we open up our mind and see things, there's much answer than inside the sutta. If were to record what the Buddha said, in books. It would filled up the whole library. The Tripitaka is just 47volumes. I am saying that Tripitaka describe in things which is more to the doctrine of the Buddha, guides you on the journey. Others like the kammic effect and so, is not all compound inside the suttas.

Female born in a more clam manner, sometimes do, they have some emotional lost balance, but it doesn't meant that they are not better than male. In the way of karma, female would be the mother, carrying the fetus for 10months, raise the child up. Don't you think the good karma that they cumulate would be much easier to born as a male? Female's effort and sacrifices is so great that they made Westlife sing "You Raise Me Up"

PeterB, I am serious

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Re: Women: more gifted for spiritual life?

Postby PeterB » Fri Jan 21, 2011 10:46 am

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