Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby meindzai » Fri Mar 18, 2011 3:06 pm

I would say look closely at what the ceremony involves, the kind of commitment it involves making, and then determine what outcome that will have on your practice.

I did a personal, private refuge ceremony for myself many years ago, but it wasn't nearly the same as when I finally was able to get to a monastery and take it with a Theravadan monk. (Oddly enough the place is called Dhamma Wheel!) For me it was very moving and powerful and really locked everything in for me. It changed my practice and I take the precepts a lot more seriously now.

The tibetan ceremony may ask you to take refuge in a Guru, something which most Theravadans would probably be uncomfortable with. You might also get a Tibetan Buddhist name! Nothing wrong with that but it might not set you on the path you are looking for. I personally would wait until you can do it with a Theravadan monk, though the Tibetan place might be a nice spot to practice meditation in the meantime.

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby PeterB » Fri Mar 18, 2011 3:29 pm

Ben wrote:Hi Peter

The only thing I can do at 2AM is to refer you to the above extract from the text by Ledi Sayadaw. It makes good reading. Given your friend apparently did not intend to go for refuge and merely recited some words in a foreign language without understanding their meaning, i doubt whether it could be considered going for refuge in any meaningful way.
Anyway, enough from me.



Yes Ben I think we can assume that for real Refuge informed consent and intention would be needed... :smile:

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby palchi » Fri Mar 18, 2011 4:04 pm

PeterB wrote:
Ben wrote:Hi Peter

The only thing I can do at 2AM is to refer you to the above extract from the text by Ledi Sayadaw. It makes good reading. Given your friend apparently did not intend to go for refuge and merely recited some words in a foreign language without understanding their meaning, i doubt whether it could be considered going for refuge in any meaningful way.
Anyway, enough from me.



Yes Ben I think we can assume that for real Refuge informed consent and intention would be needed... :smile:



Still an amazing story and a wonderful connection to make for this lady :smile:

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby PeterB » Fri Mar 18, 2011 4:15 pm

As far as I am aware she is still with a Kagyu Sangha.. :)

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby palchi » Fri Mar 18, 2011 4:21 pm

PeterB wrote:As far as I am aware she is still with a Kagyu Sangha.. :)


Why does that not surprise me? :thumbsup:

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby Aloka » Fri Mar 18, 2011 6:54 pm

palchi wrote:
PeterB wrote:As far as I am aware she is still with a Kagyu Sangha.. :)


Why does that not surprise me? :thumbsup:


I took Refuge with the previously mentioned 16th Karmapa when not really understanding exactly what I was getting involved with - yet after many years of Vajrayana I'm now Theravadin. Different strokes for different folks!

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby Fede » Fri Mar 18, 2011 7:06 pm

tiltbillings wrote:Just a point of semantics. Don't take refuge, go for refuge. You can do it your self and in a real sense you do it with every action you make that accords with the teachings.


Many thanks Tilt. Being a stickler for correct usage, this is useful to me.

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby PeterB » Fri Mar 18, 2011 7:15 pm

Aloka wrote:
palchi wrote:
PeterB wrote:As far as I am aware she is still with a Kagyu Sangha.. :)


Why does that not surprise me? :thumbsup:


I took Refuge with the previously mentioned 16th Karmapa when not really understanding exactly what I was getting involved with - yet after many years of Vajrayana I'm now Theravadin. Different strokes for different folks!

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Me too although in my case it was Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche.

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby Dan74 » Mon Mar 21, 2011 1:35 am

Some years ago I went with my wife, our new-born baby and a friend of mine to a talk by the late Ven Sheng-Yen (an eminent Chan Buddhist teacher). There was an optional Refuge Ceremony at the end of the talk but our baby was unsettled so we went home. My friend went for it and received a Chinese Buddhist name. Now after many years the meaning of that short ceremony seems to be crystallizing for him - in time of difficulty he is remembering this brief event and it reminds him of practice.

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Re: Can I receive the Triple Gem from a Tibetan Buddhist?

Postby nobody12345 » Tue Mar 22, 2011 10:41 am

Short answer is no.
Don't cling to ceremony/ ritual.
What is important is your volition and mind.
Three fold refuge should be repeated over and over in our mind not in ceremony.
A good example to use it is when we face challenge that is encountering an evil and unwholesome thought within ourselves.
In such occasion, We can recite three fold refuge and confront the evil and unwholesome thought to penetrate its impermanent nature with wisdom.
(Even if one is not at the level of exercising wisdom faculty, one should die trying.)
Again, ceremony/ritual is not important.


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