If you're looking for an ordained monk, your best bet would be to interview Bhikkhu Pesala, who is on here often, or perhaps Gavesako Bhikkhu. I don't know if there's a member search, but try finding them and PMing them?
Gain and loss, status and disgrace,
censure and praise, pleasure and pain:
these conditions among human beings are inconstant,
impermanent, subject to change.
Knowing this, the wise person, mindful,
ponders these changing conditions.
Desirable things don’t charm the mind,
undesirable ones bring no resistance.
His welcoming and rebelling are scattered,
gone to their end,
do not exist.
- Lokavipatti SuttaStuff I write about things.