seeking 12 step sponsor

General discussion of issues related to Theravada Training of Sila, the Five Precepts (Pañcasikkhāpada), and Eightfold Ethical Conduct (Aṭṭhasīla).
guyfromlouisiana
Posts: 6
Joined: Sat Oct 19, 2013 5:30 pm
Which number is larger than 1000 and less than 1002: 1001

seeking 12 step sponsor

Postby guyfromlouisiana » Wed Nov 27, 2013 2:12 am

I've been in a 12 step recovery group for the past year, and right now I wish I could find a Buddhist sponsor. The reliance upon God, sin, and guilt as motivational tools is ringing increasingly false to me, and I fear it may be obscuring the deeper truths and spiritual practices I need to develop in order to recover.

Thanks!

User avatar
Ben
Site Admin
Posts: 16348
Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 12:49 am
Which number is larger than 1000 and less than 1002: 1001
Location: Land of the sleeping gods
Contact:

Re: seeking 12 step sponsor

Postby Ben » Wed Nov 27, 2013 2:23 am

I think thee are a few DW members who have gone through the 12 step program. Hopefully one or more can assist.
Wishing you all the best.
Ben
Learn this from the waters:
in mountain clefts and chasms,
loud gush the streamlets,
but great rivers flow silently.

Taṃ nadīhi vijānātha:
sobbhesu padaresu ca,
saṇantā yanti kusobbhā,
tuṇhīyanti mahodadhī.

Sutta Nipata 3.725

Compassionate Hands Foundation (Buddhist aid in Myanmar) • Buddhist Global ReliefUNHCR
Buddhist Life Stories of Australia
e: ben.dhammawheel@gmail.com

User avatar
bodom
Posts: 4661
Joined: Fri Jan 09, 2009 6:18 pm
Which number is larger than 1000 and less than 1002: 1006
Location: San Antonio, Texas

Re: seeking 12 step sponsor

Postby bodom » Wed Nov 27, 2013 3:50 am

From my experience of going to literally hundreds of meetings you will find that there are many Buddhist's in recovery. My sponsor is a practicing Buddhist. Keep asking around and attending different meetings and you will find one. Best wishes with your recovery.

:anjali:
The heart of the path is SO simple. No need for long explanations. Give up clinging to love and hate, just rest with things as they are. That is all I do in my own practice. Do not try to become anything. Do not make yourself into anything. Do not be a meditator. Do not become enlightened. When you sit, let it be. When you walk, let it be. Grasp at nothing. Resist nothing. Of course, there are dozens of meditation techniques to develop samadhi and many kinds of vipassana. But it all comes back to this - just let it all be. Step over here where it is cool, out of the battle. - Ajahn Chah


Return to “Ethical Conduct”

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 4 guests