
chownah wrote:INtoxicants have been around ever since.......just about forever.....they are not something new....I'm not wanting to quash any discussion but to think that this is an emerging problem or in any way a new problem is not accurate in my view....its just the same old same o'.......
chownah
Annapurna wrote:
It's only of tangential interest to me what others do, because there is so much to do for myself.
So if people are still stuck in drugs, I feel sorry for them, and here it also ends.
It's their thing. I can't change them, they have to feel an inner impulse to do so, and if they don't, all discussions about their abuse will cause resistance in them.
That said, I'm not going to make their problem mine.
Kind regards
rowyourboat wrote:
When we tread our individual Path in the dhamma, it does not help to be concerned about 'what everyone else is doing'.
KonstantKarma wrote:My experience, in 'helper' positions, is that generally speaking, people don't want your help.
That's not true of everyone, of course, and we should always be willing to offer help. When it's given unrequested though it's not appreciated.
Wizard in the Forest wrote:KonstantKarma wrote:My experience, in 'helper' positions, is that generally speaking, people don't want your help.
That's not true of everyone, of course, and we should always be willing to offer help. When it's given unrequested though it's not appreciated.
If you're doing something merely to be appreciated for it you're doing it for selfish reasons.
I don't do what I do to be appreciated, I'm doing it to save lives.
KonstantKarma wrote:I hope whatever it is that you do saves lives, Wizard. We were talking about preaching against the sins of drugs here, and I've never found a drug addict who was (at least immediately) interested in that sort of thing. My experience is that to break a habit, one has to want that experience for himself, not because somebody else wants it for him.
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