Hi Phil,
phil wrote:May I ask a couple more questions? Do those of you who value Abhidhamma see it as pariyatti and the suttanta as more closely related to what you aspire to directly understand, experience througth your practice? Or is Abhidhamma equal in that respect to the suttanta for you? Has anyone come to see Abhidhamma as a kind of paradigm (? or perfectly described model, is that what paradigm means?) of the way dhammas perform functions but that it's a paradigm (?) that performs its function for Buddhist practicioners mainly as pariyatti? I guess this is not the case because I have heard Burmese sayadaws teaching their meditation method in Abhidhamma terms.
But for me it seems Abhidhamma is a perfectly expressed and inspiring model of how the deeply developed mind understands reality, and it is helpful for me to shake up my locked in, long-acquired view of the mind by considering the mind in the light of that perfect model which can only be theory for one such as me (with understanding such as "mine.") Any gradual development of understanding seems more likely to come in sutta terms, if you will. (For example, I have not found any teaching in the suttanta about millions of mind moments in what we take to be a second of thinking or seeing or whatever, I suspect that is only in Abhidhamma. But happy to learn otherwise!) If this seems that I'm going against my own stated request for this thread that Abhidhamma not be shunted aside as a junior to the suttanta, my apologies. I don't really mean to shunt it aside or reduce it in importance, but I guess if I say that I suspect it is through contemplating the suttanta that direct understanding comes, that's what I'm doing. Didn't intend to, I'm trying to work things out here....
In any case, I'll just throw that jumbled question out there and see if anyone would like to add a few more comments. No worries if not.

I'll answer by providing my approach. I engage with the Dhamma, primarily via practice: dana, sila, samadhi (kayagata-sati) and panna (vipassana). Its practice that has at its heart virtue and meditation. However, I also incorporate pariyatti into my practice by reading the suttas, commentaries inc. later scholastic material as well as the Abhidhamma commentaries. Pariyatti, to borrow the phrase from the 'pariyatti' website: 'supports the path of liberation'. In fact, I would say it is indispensable but not a replacement for sila, samatha and vipassana bhavana.
The one writer that I feel very close to, is Ledi Sayadaw who was an expert in both the Suttas and the Abhidhamma. His dipanis borrowed heavily from both to expound and make clear the Dhamma, for both inspiration and clarification for practice of lay persons.
So for me, as I mature in practice, any insights I gain along the way from meditation help me to make sense of the suttas and commentarial material, which in turn illuminate the way forward with regards to my practice. All aspects of my practice seem to support and complement each other.
I hope that goes someway to answer your question. If not, then at least it gives you something from my own perspective.
kind regards
Ben