David2 wrote:Hi everyone,
for blind people, there is no eye-contact with pictures or movies that could cause craving and for deaf people, there is no ear-contact with sounds that could cause craving, right?
So, is it easier for those blind and deaf people to overcome cravings?
If the answer is "yes", it would be helpful to make ourselves blind and deaf, wouldn't it?
So does the answer have to be "no" because nobody teaches us to make ourselves blind and deaf? But why?
I've been deaf since I was 2. It definitely doesn't make it any easier. Some people tell me that I'm lucky because I have less distraction... that's just not true. There are still thoughts, sign language, dealing with people (which is more challenging if they're not deaf), etc.
I can say this though: most of the people that I know who were born deaf, or became deaf at very early age, usually are not interested in hearing again. It's usually because they don't feel disabled. They like their culture: its history, the closeness of deaf community, the beauty of sign language. They want to continue this. The people who become deaf in later life, they usually want to hear again. (They seem to really, really hate it when they can't hear.)
If the former feel like that their culture is marginalized in any way... they will fight back, that's for sure. Some will do this poorly, i.e., become angry, but there are still others who are able to keep it in perspective. It's just the same as if you were a hearing person, and if someone disrespects you for who you are... you either deal with that well, or you don't. We still have the same problems, and we still deal with it, all the same.
