Discussion of ordination, the Vinaya and monastic life. How and where to ordain? Bhikkhuni ordination etc.
by Ytrog » Mon Jun 13, 2011 8:42 pm
As some of you may know I'll be staying as a guest at Cittaviveka Buddhist Monastery next week. I wonder though what to bring. Any gifts you can recommend?
Is it usual to give donations beforehand or afterwards and in what form (electronically or cash)?
I hope you can answer these questions as I'm not sure about these things and I don't want to do this wrong.
@moderators: I don't know if "ordination" is the appropriate place for this, however I don't see any place that is really fit for these kind of practical how-to-interact-with-the-sangha questions.
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by BlackBird » Mon Jun 13, 2011 8:56 pm
That's Chithurst right? Some Cheese would probably be quite welcome. Not sure whether they're still doing that porridge mash up for breakfast, but some fresh fruit is always a welcome addition to the monastery stores.
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by Cal » Mon Jun 13, 2011 9:10 pm
Ytrog wrote:As some of you may know I'll be staying as a guest at Cittaviveka Buddhist Monastery next week. I wonder though what to bring. Any gifts you can recommend?
Here's a Dana suggestions list from the Cittaviveka blog as of April :-
http://chithurst.blogspot.com/2011/04/dana-suggestions.htmlYtrog wrote:Is it usual to give donations beforehand or afterwards and in what form (electronically or cash)?
Not entirely sure on the form for staying visitors, but there are a couple donations boxes in the main house and Dhamma Hall. You can post cash or cheques there. I think it's probably up to you what and when. There's more information on donations here:-
http://www.cittaviveka.org/support.money.htmHope this helps
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by mikenz66 » Mon Jun 13, 2011 9:38 pm
I like to give some actual food when I visit my Wat because then it feels to me that I'm directly feeding the sangha...
On the other hand, my main donations are financial, for extremely practical reasons: that way I can give the Wat 50% more (since I can claim back about 1/3 of what I donate from the tax department)...
This might sound too calculated, but what [the trust that owns] our Wat really needs is money (to pay the mortgage, rates, electricity...).
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by Ben » Mon Jun 13, 2011 10:13 pm
mikenz66 wrote:This might sound too calculated, but what [the trust that owns] our Wat really needs is money (to pay the mortgage, rates, electricity...).
Indeed!
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by Ytrog » Tue Jun 14, 2011 9:32 am
Thanks for the answers. I can work with that. I think I'll bring something like food (not sure what I can bring along in an airplane though) and donate money

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by Ben » Tue Jun 14, 2011 9:39 am
Ytrog wrote:Thanks for the answers. I can work with that. I think I'll bring something like food (not sure what I can bring along in an airplane though) and donate money

If I were you Ytrog, I would buy some food for the monastery in England.
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by Ytrog » Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:13 am
Ben wrote:Ytrog wrote:Thanks for the answers. I can work with that. I think I'll bring something like food (not sure what I can bring along in an airplane though) and donate money

If I were you Ytrog, I would buy some food for the monastery in England.
I said I would

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by Ben » Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:20 am
Sorry Ytrog, I wasn't clear...
Buy something for the monastery in England, when you are in England.
I hope that is clearer!
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by Ytrog » Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:33 am
Then I misunderstood you
Thanks for the tip then

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by mikenz66 » Tue Jun 14, 2011 8:47 pm
Yes, I do think they have food in England...
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by Sanghamitta » Tue Jun 14, 2011 11:48 pm
Just in case there is any doubt they prefer vegetarian food...fresh fruits and salads are appreciated.
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by Ytrog » Wed Jun 15, 2011 3:51 pm
I'll see whether I can pick-up some food on the way. The bus and train run on a tight schedule from the airport, but I'll try to do my best.
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