by GraemeR » Tue Mar 20, 2012 4:17 am
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Hi Graham,
Not to nitpick by any means but your operative words are 'used to go there'...and also that you lived 'a couple of hours from Phuket' (not quite the same as living on the island itself)...many things have changed there ('beautiful places' and human beings are apples and oranges)...I used to sleep on the beach at Kata and Karon when there wasn't a building in sight...as we know, no more...I'm not here to scaremonger, just sharing a little of the the thirty plus years I've been in Thailand (much of which on, and near Phuket)...and, as much as I want to, I won't comment on Jaimie's blog...I'd just like to say to Paul and his family to BE CAREFUL...and BE AWARE every waking moment...generally speaking, 99.9% of every Thai's agenda is to separate you from your dough...(it pains me to say these things, and many will not agree, I speak from (my own, and others I know) experience)...
To the skeptics, Google the place...it's not all fun and games as advertised...
I'll leave it there...and the only reason I'm writing in this thread is my care and concern for Paul and his family...first time visitors to Phuket (and Thailand, unlike many moons ago) are ripe for the pickings (I'm sorry to say), and sometimes too trusting of human nature...
And would just like to reiterate my earlier comment about Thailand having many, many beautiful places that rival Phuket...without having to look over your shoulder...any place (again, this pains me to say,) that Thais that have regularly come into contact with, or work with Caucasians (or anyone other than Thai), something happens to them, and it's generally not positive...
ps...and never, repeat never pay the first asking price for anything you wish to purchase...50 to 70%, tops...
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Dear Appicchato,
I'm sorry to hear of your bad experiences in Thailand. I have been here for only 18 months, one year is Surat and I haven't found the problems you have faced yet. I currently live in central Thailand, which I don't enjoy as much as the south, but still I've not has any real trouble.
I have found most Thais, including market owners, pleasant and helpful, they routinely gave my kids food in Surat on many visit and on one occasion when I didn't have enough money, they told us to come back the next day and pay.
I agree the tourist areas are quite different and I always avoid those, but I don't accept what you say is true of 99.9 % of Thais. The majority of normal Thais I have met have been helpful and honest.
I would also say it's the poorest people who have often been the most friendly and kind.
With Metta,
Graham