Ideas for a strong oath

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby manas » Fri Sep 28, 2012 6:24 am

Then the Blessed One, picking up a tiny bit of dust with the tip of his fingernail, said to the monk, "There isn't even this much form...feeling...
perception...fabrications...consciousness that is constant, lasting, eternal, not subject to change, that will stay just as it is as long as eternity."

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby DAWN » Fri Sep 28, 2012 6:38 am

:goodpost:

Dear Purple Planet,
Dont say anything, just put this cake in the trash,if you want to be free of it, do not be conditioned by it
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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 6:46 am

Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Ben » Fri Sep 28, 2012 6:47 am

Dear Purple Planet,
In my simple way of seeing things - I think it best to practice the five precepts well rather than the eight poorly.
Making a decision with strong determination is good but you don't need to be melodramatic with ceremonies and cutting yourself.
Remember the Buddha rejected extreme asceticism.
Also remember, while sila is foundational and crucial, it is only part of the path. You need to also develop samadhi and panna. They are the three legs of the tripod.
kind regards,

Ben
“No lists of things to be done. The day providential to itself. The hour. There is no later. This is later. All things of grace and beauty such that one holds them to one's heart have a common provenance in pain. Their birth in grief and ashes.”
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Learn this from the waters:
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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 6:55 am

Ben, I do not agree. The five precepts are mostly not really touchable in modern life (and if, often a situation that is far away form normal quick possibilities) and are soon nothing esle as hypocratical basements for the most (look Vegitarianism...). To abstain for mind defusing things like music, politic, dayly chit-chat goes long before the five precept in fact, as a live totaly involved in such stuff would not easy lead to the prerequiste of right view, through some insight out of bhavana.

When we look for example to the , we can see that to abstain from such things is not only good for a spiritual growing but also needed for a good worldly life.
We need to be honest that our general ways today are far away form touching even a normal virtuose life. So I would not regard it as a step which is to high, but the base of practice not to say the base of a better sociaty.
Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby manas » Fri Sep 28, 2012 6:59 am

Then the Blessed One, picking up a tiny bit of dust with the tip of his fingernail, said to the monk, "There isn't even this much form...feeling...
perception...fabrications...consciousness that is constant, lasting, eternal, not subject to change, that will stay just as it is as long as eternity."

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 7:09 am

Friends, I hope that abstaining from music and entertainment does not mean "extreme asceticism" for you otherwise the whole stuff here looks somehow fare from reach. But yes: Much meditation might help...

Maybe you remember your grandmother and grandfathers, those hardly suffering extreme ascetics.
Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby manas » Fri Sep 28, 2012 7:22 am

Then the Blessed One, picking up a tiny bit of dust with the tip of his fingernail, said to the monk, "There isn't even this much form...feeling...
perception...fabrications...consciousness that is constant, lasting, eternal, not subject to change, that will stay just as it is as long as eternity."

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 7:39 am

Mana,

I guess we are somehow on the same level in regard of promises.

But in regard of traditional five or eight presepts, I guess our normal enviroment and livestile is not fit. They are also broadly abserved like Sunday Christians do it, in the countries where the eight precept day is a normal celerbrated day. Nice to be part of a community and give them also some feeling of doing something good. To observe one very good is much better from my view as to addopt traditional usuals.
Step by step but honestly is always good. For example, as long as I can remember, I just focused on that what is called abstaining from lying (everything else seems to be completely normal and out of the need or any special observation. Stealing, sexual misconduct, killing, drugs things which are logical and no base for worries normaly) and anything else came its way. But especially abstaining from endless eating with all our sense is very nessesary to get more intouch with the roots greed, hatred and illusion in our self. We might not see how greedy we are, we would be even so much distracted from the pleasure we gain out of it, that we would feel secure and use the Buddhas technics just as an additional pleasure pool.

If somebody is able to observe 8 precepts its something that is not usual and a bliss, who ever is able to do that will have great benefit from it. I guess it is good to give them some support to have the feeling that they are not alone.

Nobody ever had suffered in addition because he had started to observe precepts. It might be that it seems that things run more worse, but actually its not caused by virtue at all.
Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Ben » Fri Sep 28, 2012 9:03 am

“No lists of things to be done. The day providential to itself. The hour. There is no later. This is later. All things of grace and beauty such that one holds them to one's heart have a common provenance in pain. Their birth in grief and ashes.”
- Cormac McCarthy, The Road

Learn this from the waters:
in mountain clefts and chasms,
loud gush the streamlets,
but great rivers flow silently.
- Sutta Nipata 3.725

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 9:21 am

I guess we can see 'ceremony' and 'blood oath' very dramatic. A strong resolve is nothing bad. I guess PP searches more for a reminder and lesser for freaky rituals with the knife in the hand. But it's maybe good to point that out, crazy things happen everywhere.

Generally that is a very interesting phenomena. If for example people form the modern world come to Asia and see people sleeping on the street, they are shocked, touched and feel quickly the need to help. They would not easly start to think that there are people able to be content with little. So rather than to reflect "why can he live in this way and i am not even able to survive without aircondition" the normal way of thought is "Ohh, what a poor man, we need to help him!". The man is just wondering but happy, even he would not understand what the problem actually is.
After some meetings with the "compassionated" he even believes that he is poor and starts to say by him self "look how i live, I am so poor".

Funny, isn't it?
Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby purple planet » Fri Sep 28, 2012 10:03 am

Just to make things clear - i didnt write things in a clear way until now cause i was nervous

1 . i never planned to take a "blood oath" just to do something memorable - like eating something or listening to something ect .... and my question was to find this cool ideas that are not bodily harmful

2 . i automaticly keep the majority of the 8 preceptss thats no problem for me - but i dont want to take them for some reason like : I dont really care what people think about me and i usually dress bad and comfortable but i learned that people act better when i look good so when i go to work or important places i make myself dress nice - so its breaking the 7 precept but not in a "full" way

3 . if i could do meditation i would not really need to take an oath but because of my back and pelvic i can only be mindful all day and that is extremly hard and from expirence an oath helps a lot

4 . so i have no problem with the "big" stuff but with the "small" stuff like listening to music ect ....
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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 10:08 am

The the seventh seems to be perfect as reminder :smile: Hairs? White? A scarf? :D Little sacrify is needed.

Tears could run down in a way that you even lose the raw self illusion and win streamentry, while shaving your hairs.
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Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Ben » Fri Sep 28, 2012 10:19 am

“No lists of things to be done. The day providential to itself. The hour. There is no later. This is later. All things of grace and beauty such that one holds them to one's heart have a common provenance in pain. Their birth in grief and ashes.”
- Cormac McCarthy, The Road

Learn this from the waters:
in mountain clefts and chasms,
loud gush the streamlets,
but great rivers flow silently.
- Sutta Nipata 3.725

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby purple planet » Fri Sep 28, 2012 10:27 am

Please send merit to my dog named Mika who has passed away - thanks in advance

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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 10:39 am

Isreal would be perfect for a white robe on the top, maybe shawl is the proper word for it. Simple clothes are perfect for hot weather and white as well.

Even it is somehow forgotten or even disliked in modern world, but clothes have much influence of once behaviour and mindfulness. Special clothes need special behaviour. Somehow a responsibility that you act like you look.
Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby purple planet » Fri Sep 28, 2012 3:01 pm

I will make a public oath here - and see how it goes

it will fit my view of life and include the still big doubts i have about buddhism - this is i will commit to my view that i got as an atheist and to swear to further investigate buddhism - this way ill be sure to keep it - at least i hope so

:buddha1: I swear to live my life from now on to help others with no regard to myself i will never do anything for fun but only to help others :buddha1:

:buddha1: I swear to improve myself so i will have more power to help others :buddha1:

:buddha1: I swear not to to get attached to success or loss only to the process of helping others :buddha1:

:buddha1: i will try to be as mindful as possible as a means to help others :buddha1:
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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby DAWN » Fri Sep 28, 2012 3:31 pm

I give you a light :candle:

:namaste:
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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Hanzze » Fri Sep 28, 2012 11:35 pm

When there was even a Buddha aside, it would be nearly perfect Bodhisattva vow.

Purple planet, promises can make it really difficult to keep precepts. One helps every being just in keeping the simple precepts.
To say it simple, I refuse your promise.

When you make a vow, don't do it for others. If you do not but your self first, you can not help others.
Just that! *smile*


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Re: Ideas for a strong oath

Postby Ben » Sat Sep 29, 2012 2:59 am

“No lists of things to be done. The day providential to itself. The hour. There is no later. This is later. All things of grace and beauty such that one holds them to one's heart have a common provenance in pain. Their birth in grief and ashes.”
- Cormac McCarthy, The Road

Learn this from the waters:
in mountain clefts and chasms,
loud gush the streamlets,
but great rivers flow silently.
- Sutta Nipata 3.725

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