Hey everyone
Sorry i havent replied to any posts that have been put to me the last few days but i have been on retreat at Amaravati http://www.amaravati.org/abmnew/index.php" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
Had a fantastic time there, really learnt a lot about my meditation practice, the Dhamma, "my self" and Buddhism as a whole. In regards to my practice i really learnt how to let go more, how Dhamma is about letting go of things and not getting things. I used to have the attitude of "im going to get this, im going to understand that, i want to get rid of that" forgetting the 2nd noble truth while doing all this, that wanting to get something or wanting to get rid of something is craving and so dukkha. I understood the 2nd noble truth on an intellectual basis before but i always managed to slightly keep it out of my daily practice until now and although i still have that attitude remaining, im now at least aware of it .
Ive also learnt that i have a tendency to want to be right and not want to be wrong but that it isnt a case of being right or wrong or winning arguments (or losing them) all the time but to understand and go past dukkha. I found a deeper focus on the present moment as well thanks to Ajahn Anando, about how looking to past or future is a distraction to understanding Dhamma
Also had a few things come to the surface during the retreat that i didnt know where there before, doubt was one that surprised me, i never noticed it before but now im more aware of it now, its not a massive doubt more a subtle stream of it on occasions. It made me wake up to the fact that i dont know everything and that even though things may seem correct today they can turn out to be wrong tomorow and that all i can do is practice and learn as i go a long and not get caught up in grasping at views, opinions and ideas. I also learnt how to deal with sleepiness (thanks to people snoring lol) through mindfulness and how to be mindful while doing chores and everyday things. Walking meditation was another part of the practice i learnt, found it really helpful to clear ones mind and see things more clearly.
On the social level i had a wonderful exp. being around the monks and other laymen/laywomen. Even though there was noble silence (which i kinda liked) there was a real sense of community that was really nice to feel a part of, even if it was only for a few days. Also found the chanting by the monks to be really beautiful and emotional (felt close to tears at one point ). I also felt a strong increase in my love of the Buddha, Dhamma, Sangha and people in general as well
I also came away with a determination to now definitely seek ordination as soon as my current situation gets better and I also formally took the refuge and precepts
If anyone gets the chance i would recommend going to amaravati even if its for a day, its a wonderful Wat (the temple is so beautiful) really peaceful and welcoming
On a last note ive decided to leave Dhamma Wheel for a short time. I have realized that at the momen it would be of greater benefit for me to spend the time i use on here in meditation and study instead. Im not leaving for good and will be back at some point but in case i dont speak to anyone on here again for whatever reason i wish you all the best and hope you all find the deathless soon
With metta to everyone
Craig
My retreat Experience
My retreat Experience
“Knowing that this body is just like foam,
understanding it has the nature of a mirage,
cutting off Māra’s flower-tipped arrows,
one should go beyond the King of Death’s sight.”
understanding it has the nature of a mirage,
cutting off Māra’s flower-tipped arrows,
one should go beyond the King of Death’s sight.”
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Re: My retreat Experience
Dear Craig,
I'm so glad for you! I really am
I didn't realize that you plan to seek ordination. That's wonderful.
Best wishes,
Laura
I'm so glad for you! I really am
I didn't realize that you plan to seek ordination. That's wonderful.
Best wishes,
Laura
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Excellent!
Retreats are often the place where many breakthroughs occur.
Keep us posted on your ordination; place and preceptor, etc., if you do decide to do that.
Retreats are often the place where many breakthroughs occur.
Keep us posted on your ordination; place and preceptor, etc., if you do decide to do that.
Re: My retreat Experience
Thanks for describing your experience.
Thank you for reminding. That's true but frequently forgotten. I'll try to reflect on it more often.clw_uk wrote: I used to have the attitude of "im going to get this, im going to understand that, i want to get rid of that" forgetting the 2nd noble truth while doing all this, that wanting to get something or wanting to get rid of something is craving and so dukkha. I understood the 2nd noble truth on an intellectual basis before but i always managed to slightly keep it out of my daily practice until now and although i still have that attitude remaining, im now at least aware of it .
With best wishes
Only in a vertical view, straight down into the abyss of his own personal existence, is a man capable of apprehending the perilous insecurity of his situation; and only a man who does apprehend this is prepared to listen to the Buddha's Teaching.
Nanavira Thera - Notes on Dhamma
Only in a vertical view, straight down into the abyss of his own personal existence, is a man capable of apprehending the perilous insecurity of his situation; and only a man who does apprehend this is prepared to listen to the Buddha's Teaching.
Nanavira Thera - Notes on Dhamma
Re: My retreat Experience
Rhino wrote:Thanks for describing your experience.Thank you for reminding. That's true but frequently forgotten. I'll try to reflect on it more often.clw_uk wrote: I used to have the attitude of "im going to get this, im going to understand that, i want to get rid of that" forgetting the 2nd noble truth while doing all this, that wanting to get something or wanting to get rid of something is craving and so dukkha. I understood the 2nd noble truth on an intellectual basis before but i always managed to slightly keep it out of my daily practice until now and although i still have that attitude remaining, im now at least aware of it .
Glad to help
i found it helpful to realize that understanding Dhamma is just that, understanding. Not wanting or adverting but being mindful and fully aware of the way things are in order to understand. When we are mindful we arent adding or subtracting from experience but understanding it, "gaining" insight into it
this quote by Ajahn Sumedho may be useful for you, it is to me
Awareness is your refuge:
Awareness of the changingness of feelings,
of attitudes, of moods, of material change
and emotional change:
Stay with that, because it's a refuge that is
indestructible.
It's not something that changes.
It's a refuge you can trust in.
This refuge is not something that you create.
It's not a creation. It's not an ideal.
It's very practical and very simple, but
easily overlooked or not noticed.
When you're mindful,
you're beginning to notice,
it's like this.
Metta
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“Knowing that this body is just like foam,
understanding it has the nature of a mirage,
cutting off Māra’s flower-tipped arrows,
one should go beyond the King of Death’s sight.”
understanding it has the nature of a mirage,
cutting off Māra’s flower-tipped arrows,
one should go beyond the King of Death’s sight.”
Re: My retreat Experience
Thanks Drolma and TheDhamma, when (or if, anicca lol) i seek ordination i will let you know
Metta
Metta
“Knowing that this body is just like foam,
understanding it has the nature of a mirage,
cutting off Māra’s flower-tipped arrows,
one should go beyond the King of Death’s sight.”
understanding it has the nature of a mirage,
cutting off Māra’s flower-tipped arrows,
one should go beyond the King of Death’s sight.”
Re: My retreat Experience
Great, thank you.clw_uk wrote: this quote by Ajahn Sumedho may be useful for you, it is to me
Awareness is your refuge:
Awareness of the changingness of feelings,
of attitudes, of moods, of material change
and emotional change:
Stay with that, because it's a refuge that is
indestructible.
It's not something that changes.
It's a refuge you can trust in.
This refuge is not something that you create.
It's not a creation. It's not an ideal.
It's very practical and very simple, but
easily overlooked or not noticed.
When you're mindful,
you're beginning to notice,
it's like this.
All the best for you.
With best wishes
Only in a vertical view, straight down into the abyss of his own personal existence, is a man capable of apprehending the perilous insecurity of his situation; and only a man who does apprehend this is prepared to listen to the Buddha's Teaching.
Nanavira Thera - Notes on Dhamma
Only in a vertical view, straight down into the abyss of his own personal existence, is a man capable of apprehending the perilous insecurity of his situation; and only a man who does apprehend this is prepared to listen to the Buddha's Teaching.
Nanavira Thera - Notes on Dhamma
My retreat Experience
It's the aniversity of the Wat on 4th of July and there should be a big attendnace, also it's the weekend before Dhamma day.clw_uk wrote:Hey everyone
If anyone gets the chance i would recommend going to amaravati even if its for a day, its a wonderful Wat (the temple is so beautiful) really peaceful and welcoming
I'll be there if anyone else is attending, see you!
With metta
Graham
Graham
Re: My retreat Experience
Hi Craig,
Sadhu, Sadhu, Sadhu.
Thanks for the nice report. I'm very happy for you.
Metta
Mike
Sadhu, Sadhu, Sadhu.
Thanks for the nice report. I'm very happy for you.
Metta
Mike
Re: My retreat Experience
Way to go, Brother!!!!
It's important, I find, to keep that attention after the retreat, so that when we begin to slip into the habitual mode of functioning, the awareness is there and then it won't be "the habitual mode of functioning".
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It's important, I find, to keep that attention after the retreat, so that when we begin to slip into the habitual mode of functioning, the awareness is there and then it won't be "the habitual mode of functioning".
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Re: My retreat Experience
Greetings Craig,
Some excellent learnings there and good luck with your plans.
Metta,
Retro.
Some excellent learnings there and good luck with your plans.
Metta,
Retro.
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Re: My retreat Experience
I'm so glad that you did a retreat. All the best to you and may you continue to uncover the little wisdoms that speak so much.
With metta,
zavk
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