SarathW wrote:Hi Nrose
I had a minor car accident yesterday. (hit behind). I made an appointment with the panel beater and took time off from my work and went to see him just now. He said that he is too busy and did not even look at the car and ask me to come some other time!
Some people do not have feelings for others. I extended my loving kindness to the panel beater.
Sorry to hear that! Hope it will get resolved soon!
However, if I may, it does happen that people are more busy at the moment are than we are!
Sometimes we can't imagine their schedules!
Like, Christmas business is high right now, and I am faced with a simular problem tomorrow.
I have an online shop and many people buy too late, of course, and then I have work days like last SUNDAY:
I worked from 8 -24, except for getting a bite to eat. On a Sunday. When you want to rest. And may need to.
Tomorrow a Lady would like to drop by who contacted me like 3 or 4 weeks ago about a gift.
Now, so close before Christmas, she would like to come by, when I don't even have a show room, and is causing me enourmous stress because I have a feeling what she actually wants is to have a nice cup of tea with me on her free day and chat, and take her time trying everything in front of the mirror, and then buy a small thing.
She wants to get a happy xmas feeling...
And I just don't have the time.
All I have time for is grab a thing, and ship it, and do it again....
and I knew this would happen and asked her before to do this earlier in the year.
All this I just said, so that you don't think things of the man, without knowing his schedule.
He might even have someone in the hospital, etc, pp.
Don't take it personally, he may be a jerk, but he may be not and just struggle...
Big hug from me!
Off to work...