I must say I find the remark about "banana republic" pretty offensive.
Are we not talking about a private problem here, between a married couple?
And is a marriage really worth less to you than a job?
Isn't a new job much easier found than a new beloved, -and what's up with their children, if they are raising a family?
Should we not feel compassion for the woman, who found out, that her husband is around a temptation all day long, distracting him from his job, with a high responsibility for other people's well being?
Would you want to pay your hard-earned money for dental treatments & oral surgery to a man, who is distracted by a cleavage and not able to do his best for you?
Wouldn't you be outraged and desperate if he absentmindedly caused you life-long suffering, due to medical malpractice?
It's happened before...!!
And if you gentlemen could be so kind and clarify something that puzzles me:
I have the feeling you trivialize and mock the "jealousy" of the woman, her fear of loss. Is that so?
If yes, why?