Exact quote: "You are your own refuge..."

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Exact quote: "You are your own refuge..."

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Hi,

Is there a quote attributed to the Buddha that's something like, "You are your own refuge, for who else could be?" I was just wondering if that exact phrasing is correct. I have seen several quotes about "being one's own refuge," but was trying to remember the wording of this one in particular.

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It is important to quote the full context, or there is too much room for misunderstanding by those who have scant regard for the Buddhist tradition.

This passage is from the Mahāparinibbāna Sutta, where the Buddha instructs Ānanda how the monks should conduct themselves after his death. (However, see also Dhammapada v 160
Tasmātih Ānanda, attadīpā viharatha attasaraṇā anaññasaraṇā, dhammadīpā dhammasaraṇā anaññasaraṇā. Kathañc Ānanda, bhikkhu attadīpo viharati attasaraṇo anaññasaraṇo, dhammadīpo dhammasaraṇo anaññasaraṇo? Idh Ānanda, bhikkhu kāye kāyānupassī viharati atāpī sampajāno satimā, vineyya loke abhijjhādomanassaṃ. Vedanāsu … … Citte.... Dhammesu dhammānupassī viharati ātāpī sampajāno satimā, vineyya loke abhijjhādomanassaṃ. Evaṃ kho, Ānanda, bhikkhu attadīpo viharati attasaraṇo anaññasaraṇo, dhammadīpo dhammasaraṇo anaññasaraṇo.
Therefore, Ānanda, dwell with yourself as your own island (dīpa),¹ with yourself as your own refuge, take no other refuge. Take the Dhamma as your island, take the Dhamma as your refuge, take no other refuge. And how, Ānanda, does a monk dwell taking himself as his own island, taking himself as his own refuge, taking no other refuge? Here, Ānanda, a bhikkhu dwells contemplating the body in the body, ardent, clearly comprehending, and mindful, having abandoned covetousness and grief concerning the world. He dwells contemplating feelings in feelings ... thoughts in thoughts ... mind-objects in mind-objects...

So, gaining self-reliance entails practising the four foundations of mindfulness, ardently, clearly comprehending, and mindfully until the goal is reached. This is best done by following the guidance of a qualified meditation instructor, but if one cannot find one, it can also be done by careful study in conjunction with practice.

It does not mean clinging to one's own views and opinions, and failing to practise the Dhamma/Vinaya as laid down by the Buddha.

¹ Dīpa can be translated as “island” or “lamp.” I checked the Commentary, which gives the meaning of an island.
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Bhikkhu Pesala wrote:It is important to quote the full context, or there is too much room for misunderstanding by those who have scant regard for the Buddhist tradition.
Or, sometimes for those with high regard. Thank you for this. :anjali:
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Also attadipa sutta : http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka ... .wlsh.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
""Monks, be islands unto yourselves, be your own refuge, having no other; let the Dhamma be an island and a refuge to you, having no other."
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Great sutta. That one also goes on to say how one should practice for that refuge...

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Gombrich in "What the Buddha Thought" thinks this is a rebuke of "taking refuge in the Buddha". A warning against devotion and glorification of the Buddha after his death.
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Kamran wrote:Gombrich in "What the Buddha Thought" thinks this is a rebuke of "taking refuge in the Buddha". A warning against devotion and glorification of the Buddha after his death.
Certainly if devotion to the Buddha or the Sangha was causing one to be complacent in their devotion to (and hence practice of) the dhamma then that would be problematic. My understanding of taking refuge in Buddha, Dhamma, Sangha is the notion of putting stock into something. One invests in the Buddha, Dhamma, Sangha under the confidence that it will provide a good return for oneself. The idea being that one puts stock into the claim that the Buddha awoke to a dhamma that leads to the end of all dukkha, that he established an order of contemplatives that have preserved the teaching and that has members who have awoken to this same dhamma and that as a result we are able to awaken to this dhamma and put an end to all dukkha for ourselves. And that is why the triple gem is a good refuge, because it allows to become islands unto ourselves, freed from the craving that binds one to the masses of fuel that lead to further dukkha.

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Gombrich in "What the Buddha Thought" thinks this is a rebuke of "taking refuge in the Buddha". A warning against devotion and glorification of the Buddha after his death.
I wonder if Gombrich had read this...
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka ... .wlsh.html" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
Take the case of another man.
He is not even endowed with unwavering devotion to the Buddha, the Dhamma, the Sangha.
He is not joyous and swift in wisdom and has not gained release.
But he has just these things: the faculty of faith, of energy, of mindfulness, of concentration, of wisdom.
Yet if he has merely faith, merely affection for the Tathagata, that man, too, does not go to... states of woe
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Whatever you are taking refuge to your refuge is your own idea of refuge. So it boils down to "You are your own refuge..." :sage:
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"You are your own refuge..."
"You are your own heaven..."
"You are your own hell..."

So the only truly reliable refuge is the Dhamma.

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ground wrote:Whatever you are taking refuge to your refuge is your own idea of refuge. So it boils down to "You are your own refuge..." :sage:
Actually all of your idea is not yours, so you are not your own refuge
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whynotme wrote:
ground wrote:Whatever you are taking refuge to your refuge is your own idea of refuge. So it boils down to "You are your own refuge..." :sage:
Actually all of your idea is not yours, so you are not your own refuge
  • Dhp 158. One should first establish oneself in what is proper; then only should one instruct others. Thus the wise man will not be reproached.

    160. One truly is the protector of oneself; who else could the protector be? With oneself fully controlled, one gains a mastery that is hard to gain.
  • Beings are owners of their kamma, heirs of their kamma; kamma is the womb from which they have sprung, kamma is their friend and refuge. Thus kamma divides beings into the high and low. --M 135 iii 206.
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whynotme wrote:
ground wrote:Whatever you are taking refuge to your refuge is your own idea of refuge. So it boils down to "You are your own refuge..." :sage:
Actually all of your idea is not yours, so you are not your own refuge
Yes. Realizing that all ideas are neither self nor other no need for refuge arises. However thinking this way and/or inferring is not realizing and because this is the case the idea of refuge may arise. :sage:
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ground wrote:
whynotme wrote:
ground wrote:Whatever you are taking refuge to your refuge is your own idea of refuge. So it boils down to "You are your own refuge..." :sage:
Actually all of your idea is not yours, so you are not your own refuge
Yes. Realizing that all ideas are neither self nor other no need for refuge arises. However thinking this way and/or inferring is not realizing and because this is the case the idea of refuge may arise.
May arise? The Buddha seemed to think that it has ultilatian value in the process of coming to awakening.
>> Do you see a man wise [enlightened/ariya] in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him.<< -- Proverbs 26:12

This being is bound to samsara, kamma is his means for going beyond. -- SN I, 38.

“Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?” HPatDH p.723
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