the ceremony will be done by a female jodoshinshu priest who is a friend of mine, it will be done outdoors near the ocean, just family and 1 friend who is gonna take pictures!
2nd time is the charm right?
A Buddhist discussion forum on the Dhamma of the Theravada
i'm getting married!
33 posts
• Page 1 of 2 • 1, 2
i'm getting married!
by jcsuperstar » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:47 am
sunday 7/12
the ceremony will be done by a female jodoshinshu priest who is a friend of mine, it will be done outdoors near the ocean, just family and 1 friend who is gonna take pictures!
2nd time is the charm right?
the ceremony will be done by a female jodoshinshu priest who is a friend of mine, it will be done outdoors near the ocean, just family and 1 friend who is gonna take pictures!
2nd time is the charm right?
สัพเพ สัตตา สุขีตา โหนตุ
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat
-
jcsuperstar - Posts: 1915
- Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 5:15 am
- Location: alaska
Re: i'm getting married!
by Guy » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:50 am
Congratulations!
I hope you have a nice wedding and a successful marriage.
With Metta,
Guy
I hope you have a nice wedding and a successful marriage.
With Metta,
Guy
Four types of letting go:
1) Giving; expecting nothing back in return
2) Throwing things away
3) Contentment; wanting to be here, not wanting to be anywhere else
4) "Teflon Mind"; having a mind which doesn't accumulate things
- Ajahn Brahm
1) Giving; expecting nothing back in return
2) Throwing things away
3) Contentment; wanting to be here, not wanting to be anywhere else
4) "Teflon Mind"; having a mind which doesn't accumulate things
- Ajahn Brahm
-
Guy - Posts: 762
- Joined: Fri May 22, 2009 4:05 am
- Location: Perth, Western Australia
Re: i'm getting married!
by Ben » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:53 am
Congratulations JC!
...he wondered whether there was any love between human beings that did not rest upon some sort of self-delusion.
-- John le Carré, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy
Compassionate Hands Foundation (Buddhist aid in Myanmar)
Buddhist Global Relief
UNHCR Somali Emergency Relief Appeal
e: ben.dhammawheel@gmail.com
-- John le Carré, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy
Compassionate Hands Foundation (Buddhist aid in Myanmar)
Buddhist Global Relief
UNHCR Somali Emergency Relief Appeal
e: ben.dhammawheel@gmail.com
-
Ben - Site Admin
- Posts: 14463
- Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 12:49 am
- Location: Toarra.marra.monah
Re: i'm getting married!
by retrofuturist » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:56 am
Go JC!
I always see your Facebook updates and think how sweet it is that you're so smitten with your ladyfriend.
Metta,
Retro.
I always see your Facebook updates and think how sweet it is that you're so smitten with your ladyfriend.
Metta,
Retro.
If you have asked me of the origination of unease, then I shall explain it to you in accordance with my understanding:
Whatever various forms of unease there are in the world, They originate founded in encumbering accumulation. (Pārāyanavagga)
'We should not congratulate someone on the success of their misdeeds, but on the contrary should endeavour to advise him or her to lead a more skilful and wholesome life. If such advice is ignored then we can only give up and let go' - Phra Panyapatipo
Dharma Wheel (Mahayana / Vajrayana forum)
Whatever various forms of unease there are in the world, They originate founded in encumbering accumulation. (Pārāyanavagga)
'We should not congratulate someone on the success of their misdeeds, but on the contrary should endeavour to advise him or her to lead a more skilful and wholesome life. If such advice is ignored then we can only give up and let go' - Phra Panyapatipo
Dharma Wheel (Mahayana / Vajrayana forum)
-
retrofuturist - Posts: 13633
- Joined: Tue Dec 30, 2008 9:52 pm
- Location: Melbourne, Australia
Re: i'm getting married!
by jcsuperstar » Sat Jul 11, 2009 8:03 am
i have never felt this way about a girl before, i mean i met her while i was living at a Wat... just one morning i looked over at her, we were in front of the monks and we made eye contact and i just "knew" i wanted nothing but to spend the rest of my life with this person... we were barely even friends at this point... it scared the hell out of me.. i'm pretty lucky it worked out or else it woulda meant i was some looney or something. but the night before one of the monks told us that we were all together at the temple (i had convinced a group of thai people to do a retreat which is pretty uncommon but maybe they had to show up the white guy i dont know) that we had been brought together because of past kamma and it now its like oh man now one day shes gonna be a naga and try to kill me when i'm on the cusp of nibbana 
or vice versa (more likely)
thanks everyone
or vice versa (more likely)thanks everyone
สัพเพ สัตตา สุขีตา โหนตุ
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat
-
jcsuperstar - Posts: 1915
- Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 5:15 am
- Location: alaska
Re: i'm getting married!
by Annapurna » Sat Jul 11, 2009 10:05 am
Congratulations. 
http://www.schmuckzauberei.blogspot.com/
-
Annapurna - Posts: 2639
- Joined: Mon Jan 05, 2009 8:04 pm
- Location: Germany
Re: i'm getting married!
by genkaku » Sat Jul 11, 2009 11:02 am
Congratulations and all best wishes!
-
genkaku - Posts: 416
- Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 11:14 pm
- Location: Northampton, Mass. U.S.A.
Re: i'm getting married!
by Cittasanto » Sat Jul 11, 2009 12:35 pm
Congrats
may the good times be many and the bad times shourt & few
may the good times be many and the bad times shourt & few
This offering maybe right, or wrong, but it is one, the other, both, or neither!
With Metta
Upāsaka Cittasanto
Blog - Some Suttas Translated.
"Others will misconstrue reality due to their personal perspectives, doggedly holding onto and not easily discarding them; We shall not misconstrue reality due to our own personal perspectives, nor doggedly holding onto them, but will discard them easily. This effacement shall be done."
With Metta
Upāsaka Cittasanto
Blog - Some Suttas Translated.
"Others will misconstrue reality due to their personal perspectives, doggedly holding onto and not easily discarding them; We shall not misconstrue reality due to our own personal perspectives, nor doggedly holding onto them, but will discard them easily. This effacement shall be done."
-
Cittasanto - Posts: 5496
- Joined: Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:31 pm
- Location: Ellan Vannin (Isle of Man - not part of the UK)
Re: i'm getting married!
by David N. Snyder » Sat Jul 11, 2009 1:15 pm
Congratulations! 
Nice picture too.
My wife and I are Theravadins too, but we were married at a Vajrayana temple. Buddhist weddings are great.
Nice picture too.
My wife and I are Theravadins too, but we were married at a Vajrayana temple. Buddhist weddings are great.
-
David N. Snyder - Site Admin
- Posts: 6822
- Joined: Tue Dec 30, 2008 4:15 am
- Location: Las Vegas, Nevada
Re: i'm getting married!
by Hoja » Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:19 pm
Congratulations and best wishes for you 2!!
Metta
Hernán
Metta
Hernán
-
Hoja - Posts: 36
- Joined: Tue Feb 10, 2009 1:08 am
- Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
Re: i'm getting married!
by clw_uk » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:05 pm
Congratulations
metta
metta
not worrying about
the past and the future,
giving rise to the present moment,
becoming established in this place of full perfection.”
Ajahn Liem
the past and the future,
giving rise to the present moment,
becoming established in this place of full perfection.”
Ajahn Liem
- clw_uk
- Posts: 2378
- Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 2:36 am
- Location: Wales, United Kingdom
Re: i'm getting married!
by Ngawang Drolma. » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:14 pm
Woohoo! Congrats! I'm happy for you both.
-
Ngawang Drolma. - Posts: 805
- Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 7:38 pm
Re: i'm getting married!
by sattva » Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:26 pm
Oh, i wish you many wonderful years together, sharing loving-kindness and helping each other on the Path!
Wishing: In gladness and in safety,
May all beings be at ease.
---from the Metta Sutta
May all beings be at ease.
---from the Metta Sutta
-
sattva - Posts: 402
- Joined: Thu May 07, 2009 10:07 pm
- Location: the western part of Maryland
Re: i'm getting married!
by BlackBird » Sat Jul 11, 2009 10:14 pm
Best wishes man! Ecstatic that you're happy 
"But, Udāyi, let be the past, let be the future, I shall set you forth the Teaching: When there is this this is, with arising of this this arises; when there is not this this is not, with cessation of this this ceases." - Majjhima ii,32
Nanavira Thera's teachings - An existential approach to the Dhamma:
http://bit.ly/LDsGHg
Nanavira Thera's teachings - An existential approach to the Dhamma:
http://bit.ly/LDsGHg
-
BlackBird - Posts: 1388
- Joined: Fri Apr 17, 2009 12:07 pm
- Location: New Zealand
Re: i'm getting married!
by zavk » Sun Jul 12, 2009 4:07 am
Great news! All the best to the two of you!
-
zavk - Posts: 1135
- Joined: Tue Jan 20, 2009 12:04 pm
- Location: Melbourne, Australia
Re: i'm getting married!
by cooran » Sun Jul 12, 2009 8:24 am
Congratulations - may you both prosper in the Dhamma!
metta
Chris
metta
Chris
---The trouble is that you think you have time---
---It's not what happens to you in life that is important ~ it's what you do with it ---
---It's not what happens to you in life that is important ~ it's what you do with it ---
-
cooran - Posts: 6068
- Joined: Tue Jan 06, 2009 11:32 pm
- Location: Queensland, Australia
Re: i'm getting married!
by phil » Sun Jul 12, 2009 10:18 am
Congratulations!
I'm sure you know it already, but what a great reading this sutta makes for a wedding ceremony.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka ... .than.html
(though I must admit it always puzzles me a bit when considered in line with other teachings...alwats feels kinda eternalist. But I guess a little eternalism never hurt on a wedding day! )
Metta,
Phil
I'm sure you know it already, but what a great reading this sutta makes for a wedding ceremony.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka ... .than.html
(though I must admit it always puzzles me a bit when considered in line with other teachings...alwats feels kinda eternalist. But I guess a little eternalism never hurt on a wedding day!
)Metta,
Phil
I hope that every time I post it will be accompanied by a wish for the wellbeing of everyone in this sangha and all beings.
(so I don't have to write "metta" every time!)
Kammalakkhano , bhikkhave, bālo, kammalakkhano pandito, apadānasobhanī paññāti
(The fool is characterized by his/her actions/the wise one is characterized by his/her actions/Wisdom shines forth in behaviour.)
(AN 3.2 Lakkhana Sutta)
(so I don't have to write "metta" every time!)
Kammalakkhano , bhikkhave, bālo, kammalakkhano pandito, apadānasobhanī paññāti
(The fool is characterized by his/her actions/the wise one is characterized by his/her actions/Wisdom shines forth in behaviour.)
(AN 3.2 Lakkhana Sutta)
-
phil - Posts: 487
- Joined: Tue Mar 03, 2009 5:08 am
- Location: Tokyo
Re: i'm getting married!
by jcsuperstar » Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:24 pm
thanks everyone!!! 
สัพเพ สัตตา สุขีตา โหนตุ
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat
the mountain may be heavy in and of itself, but if you're not trying to carry it it's not heavy to you- Ajaan Suwat
-
jcsuperstar - Posts: 1915
- Joined: Wed Dec 31, 2008 5:15 am
- Location: alaska
Re: i'm getting married!
by rowyourboat » Sun Jul 12, 2009 9:42 pm
congratulations!
With Metta
Karuna
Mudita
& Upekkha
Karuna
Mudita
& Upekkha
- rowyourboat
- Posts: 1949
- Joined: Sat Jan 03, 2009 5:29 pm
- Location: London, UK
33 posts
• Page 1 of 2 • 1, 2
Who is online
Registered users: barcsimalsi, Ben, Bing [Bot], Google [Bot], khlawng, Lazy_eye, Majestic-12 [Bot], mettafuture, mikenz66, onaquest, rahul3bds, stlredbird