ok so maybe combine them - but here im asking from a little different prespective
i got a good answer back then if it was only about meditation - but now im asking from a different perspective -
assuming the middle-way is about everything
where do we draw the exact line in different situations in life even secular non spiritual ones ?
but now Bhikkhu Pesala answer made me wonder is it really about everything or not
(since that thread i saw in a few places - that the middle way is talked about as something that is the main philosophy and true to everything in life and from the thread you linked i understood it as to avoid the two extremes - and now saw this thread which makes me wonder if its just to balance the brahma viharas : viewtopic.php?f=42&t=19483