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by Dhamma Chameleon
Wed Mar 20, 2024 5:11 pm
Forum: Vipassanā / Satipaṭṭhāna Bhāvana
Topic: Is sati discernment?
Replies: 13
Views: 439

Re: Is sati discernment?

The way I understand is, sati is remembering the teachings and being mindful of them. Discernment is a function of wisdom, of knowing what to do when you remember the teachings, so you can choose a wholesome response. So sati makes discernment possible.
by Dhamma Chameleon
Thu Mar 14, 2024 7:17 pm
Forum: Hot Topics
Topic: masturbation what's wrong?
Replies: 615
Views: 277447

Re: Pornography, Masturbation and Sex Addiction - Dharma helped?

Now I live the first time in my life celibate since 32 days. That seemed really impossible (!!) for me, before that moment I watched the video. ... I am not kidding: I never felt so good like in these days. In this month I was thinking a lot about my past. I had a lot of bad experiences in relation...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Wed Mar 13, 2024 12:27 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Is hair spiritual?
Replies: 8
Views: 276

Re: Is hair spiritual?

Hair can be something people become especially attached to and identify with (speaking from experience here!). I believe that's why it's shaved off in Buddhism, to lose your distinguishing marks and source of attachment. There's not anything spiritual about it as far as I'm aware.
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sat Mar 09, 2024 8:18 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: Safe place during war
Replies: 29
Views: 696

Re: Safe place during war

The only truly safe place you can find is wherever you are.
by Dhamma Chameleon
Fri Mar 08, 2024 1:35 am
Forum: Lounge
Topic: Largest Hindu temple outside Asia opens in New Jersey
Replies: 6
Views: 935

Re: Largest Hindu temple outside Asia opens in New Jersey

The power of Buddhism is projected through the Buddha, dhamma and sangha.
by Dhamma Chameleon
Wed Mar 06, 2024 5:19 pm
Forum: Theravāda for Beginners
Topic: First time retreat
Replies: 6
Views: 462

Re: First time retreat

Welcome Jack!

The Goenka retreat centre near Jaipur is a lovely place. Very basic but peaceful and beautiful atmosphere.
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Mar 03, 2024 7:48 pm
Forum: Theravāda for Beginners
Topic: Why is the end of suffering desirable?
Replies: 38
Views: 3578

Re: Why is the end of suffering desirable?

There are currently companies that offer 'health scans' where you can pre-emptively check for indicators of health problems even though you aren't experiencing ill health. Very often these reveal some benign or unnoticeable anomaly, like a non-malignant tumour or elevated readings of some physical p...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Mar 03, 2024 6:52 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: What is the best place (limb) to start studying Dependent Origination?
Replies: 7
Views: 411

Re: What is the best place (limb) to start studying Dependent Origination?

His answer was to start it in whatever place you can understand. I'd say start at whatever link you notice or suffer from the most and then look at its connection to the one before or after it. Again, whichever is most noticeable. The point is to understand causality so it really doesn't matter whi...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Tue Feb 27, 2024 8:29 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Practices around Dependant Origination
Replies: 56
Views: 2163

Re: Practices around Dependant Origination

For many people, myself included, the meditation came first. It was offered without any insistence that virtue and sense restraint were necessary. They weren't even mentioned. Only later did a search for more clarity and even more enjoyable mental states lead to a consideration of restraint, as a m...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Mon Feb 26, 2024 8:50 am
Forum: Sīla
Topic: Sociopathic... or enlightened?
Replies: 5
Views: 458

Re: Sociopathic... or enlightened?

Maybe we are dealing with two different frames of reference. Sure, and in the psychological framework sociopathy and the other 'dark triad' personality disorders are seen as beyond hope for moral functioning. This lady seems to have found a buddhism-like frame to help her behave in a (more) moral w...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Feb 25, 2024 6:02 pm
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Buddhist cosmology and the "Many Worlds" school of quantum mechanics
Replies: 18
Views: 1019

Re: Buddhist cosmology and the "Many Worlds" school of quantum mechanics

One thing which really fascinates me (in a negative way) is how presumptuous the many worlds schools is in completely ignoring consciousness. ... I give it to Carroll and other proponents of many worlds that their theory is neat and elegant in terms of its formalism, but at best it must be very inc...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Feb 25, 2024 5:12 pm
Forum: Sīla
Topic: Sociopathic... or enlightened?
Replies: 5
Views: 458

Re: Sociopathic... or enlightened?

Fixed the link. It's the same author. Some relevant quotes from this second article: He knew I didn’t take things like this personally. That’s one of the perks of being married to a sociopath: I don’t get jealous. He knew that if he were to tell me he liked her, I would listen and relate without rea...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Feb 25, 2024 4:43 pm
Forum: Sīla
Topic: Sociopathic... or enlightened?
Replies: 5
Views: 458

Sociopathic... or enlightened?

I'm being a bit flippant, I don't really think this person is enlightened. But I do think her rational, non-emotional approach to behaviour and decision making is very close to what the Buddha advised, and along the same reasons for it (to achieve better results). Here's a selection of quotes I foun...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Feb 25, 2024 3:08 pm
Forum: Lounge
Topic: Are You prepared For an earthquake?
Replies: 35
Views: 1399

Re: Are You prepared For an earthquake?

Hello i have recently looked some videos of some clayrovoidants, one is from Deseret Tavares, she says that an earthquake 8.0 Will come to California in the San Andres fault in the following 1-3 months of 2024 I predict that there will be even more days during that time span when earthquakes will n...
by Dhamma Chameleon
Sun Feb 25, 2024 2:59 pm
Forum: General Theravāda discussion
Topic: Practices around Dependant Origination
Replies: 56
Views: 2163

Re: Practices around Dependant Origination

What are some practices centered around the 12 links of dependant origination that you have found helpful? How might one practice using, or in accordance with these 12? What I've found useful is to focus in on two links for a period of time (on and off the cushion) that are noticeably causing me su...