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by Buckwheat
Sat Jul 18, 2015 12:24 am
Forum: Lounge (Archive)
Topic: The Buddhist and the Neuroscientist
Replies: 1
Views: 458

Re: The Buddhist and the Neuroscientist

The best way to activate positive-emotion circuits in the brain is through generosity,
by Buckwheat
Sat Oct 25, 2014 4:04 am
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Alcohol gift
Replies: 11
Views: 1868

Re: Alcohol gift

Bhikkhu, Regarding the unwholesome Kama for re-gifting alcohol: would it be permissible to simply tell your friend the story of your dad giving you alcohol that you can't drink, and when they say, "would you please give me the alcohol," would you at that point be acting in wholesome service to your ...
by Buckwheat
Sat Oct 25, 2014 3:53 am
Forum: Sīla
Topic: watching porn can be adultery?
Replies: 78
Views: 16851

Re: watching porn can be adultery?

I was watching a movie a while ago and the love scene pretty much turned into pornography... I did not masturbate.

Also, even more to the point, last night I clicked over to site with nude ladies, but after a few minutes I realized that I did not need to be doing that and left without masturbating.
by Buckwheat
Fri Oct 24, 2014 1:12 pm
Forum: Vipassanā / Satipaṭṭhāna Bhāvana
Topic: Mindfulness
Replies: 3
Views: 1562

Re: Mindfulness

If you are having difficulty knowing your breath (as I often do) then you will probably have difficulty with the others as well. But the breath is the easiest to know if you are doing it right, to build some confidence, and to calm many of the really course bad habits so that you will have the clari...
by Buckwheat
Wed Oct 15, 2014 3:33 am
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Revealing a cheating spouse: Wrong Speech?
Replies: 37
Views: 4973

Re: Revealing a cheating spouse: Wrong Speech?

I thought about this more, and this is the honest truth, but it is not based on morality. It is based on my personality and what I would likely do based on my own predispositions to avoid conflict yet to be supportive... If I am closer friends with the cheater, I would keep the secret and council hi...
by Buckwheat
Wed Sep 17, 2014 3:21 am
Forum: Connections to Other Paths
Topic: Revealing a cheating spouse: Wrong Speech?
Replies: 37
Views: 4973

Re: Revealing a cheating spouse: Wrong Speech?

If possible, I would convince the adulterer to confess their own crimes. Hearing from a third party evokes so many more confusing emotions. Denial and anger grow stronger. Also, they have time to grow more angry without the cheater having the chance to apologize. Of course, I realize this approach i...
by Buckwheat
Fri Sep 12, 2014 3:31 pm
Forum: General Theravāda Meditation
Topic: Giving up....
Replies: 81
Views: 10279

Re: Giving up....

Try sitting at a different time of day...? in the morning I either fall asleep or ruminate, but in the evening I sit with some success.

May you find the path that works for you :anjali:
by Buckwheat
Wed Sep 03, 2014 2:33 pm
Forum: Lounge (Archive)
Topic: Word Association Game
Replies: 11969
Views: 1079373

Re: Word Association Game

Flip-flops (sandals)
by Buckwheat
Sat Jan 18, 2014 3:09 pm
Forum: Lounge (Archive)
Topic: Spaced out...
Replies: 7
Views: 987

Re: Spaced out...

Wow.
by Buckwheat
Sat Jan 18, 2014 2:58 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introduction
Replies: 8
Views: 1224

Re: Introduction

:hello:
by Buckwheat
Sat Jan 18, 2014 2:57 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hello from New Jersey
Replies: 8
Views: 903

Re: Hello from New Jersey

:hello:
by Buckwheat
Sat Jan 18, 2014 2:26 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Daverupa ~ global moderator!
Replies: 14
Views: 4660

Re: Daverupa ~ global moderator!

Thanks for taking on this task, Dave.
by Buckwheat
Sat Jan 18, 2014 2:20 pm
Forum: Announcements
Topic: Thanks for everything Ben!
Replies: 24
Views: 12931

Re: Thanks for everything Ben!

Thanks, Ben! Looks like a pretty awesome gig.
by Buckwheat
Thu Jan 02, 2014 7:19 am
Forum: Lounge (Archive)
Topic: Cannabis goes on legal sale in US state of Colorado
Replies: 13
Views: 1559

Re: Cannabis goes on legal sale in US state of Colorado

It is not actually legal. It is still against federal law to buy / sell / possess marijuana in Colorado. The feds claim they are not going to fight the Colorado law, but they said the same thing about medical marijuana. There have been major crack downs when the feds are jonesing for a fix.