The idea of renouncing is boring to normal people. Perception of unattractiveness, impermanence, suffering and non self. That do not interest most people. Seeing sense pleasure as a hot iron. They will ask you really? Most of my Buddhist friends do not meditate as well.Cause_and_Effect wrote: ↑Fri Aug 20, 2021 1:10 pmThat's a horrible way of putting it. We do not seek excitement, but the path needs to be interesting.
Without interest in your practice and study, you will never get very far at all.
There is plenty to find interesting and fascinating as you progress along the path.
Cultivating interest is part of the path and related to one of the factors of enlightenment dhamma vicaya or investigation.
Cultivating joy is also pleasurable and interesting.
Developing jhana is interesting.
Seeing the dependent origination is interesting.
Examining the mind and seeing ones attachments is interesting
For fireworks on the path if so desired, one could explore iddhis or supernormal faculties, the mind made body and astral travel.
One can make ones practice more interesting than mundane day to day life in various ways.
Of course it needs to be balanced. Sometimes people find delight in the analytic mind and thinking about dhamma which is just a disguised form of restlessness and agitation.
Common on internet forums if people spend five or ten times more time talking and thinking about dhamma then meditating and practicing.
I know what you are talking about balanced life. I am a householder and have a routine to exercise, eat, reading nikaya, meditate, sleep, getting to know what is happening around the world, monitoring my investments, reviewing my day etc. I don't really get very excited.
I might get a little more excited if I meet people like you that have some knowledge on meditation.