Can anyone share 10 kind of wives
In VA and VvA?
10 kind of wives
10 kind of wives
Bahagia Tidak Harus Selalu Bersama
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
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Re: 10 kind of wives
I've never even heard of the 10 kinds of wives
Re: 10 kind of wives
Hiriottappasampannā,
sukkadhammasamāhitā;
Santo sappurisā loke,
devadhammāti vuccare.
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sukkadhammasamāhitā;
Santo sappurisā loke,
devadhammāti vuccare.
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Re: 10 kind of wives
Odapattakiyā: a wife who was received
after touching the water bowl
after touching the water bowl
Bahagia Tidak Harus Selalu Bersama
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Re: 10 kind of wives
There is always an official executioner. If you try to take his place, It is like trying to be a master carpenter and cutting wood. If you try to cut wood like a master carpenter, you will only hurt your hand.
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Re: 10 kind of wives
Theravāda Vinaya / Mahāvibhaṅga / Saṅghādisesakaṇḍa / Sañcarittasikkhāpada
Theravāda Collection on Monastic Law
The monks’ rules and their analysis
The chapter on offenses entailing suspension
5. The training rule on matchmaking
Sañcaritta—Bhikkhu Brahmali
Theravāda Collection on Monastic Law
The monks’ rules and their analysis
The chapter on offenses entailing suspension
5. The training rule on matchmaking
Sañcaritta—Bhikkhu Brahmali
- numbers added
https://suttacentral.net/pli-tv-bu-vb-ss5/en/brahmali...
There are ten kinds of wives:- the bought wife,
- the wife by choice,
- the wife through property,
- the wife through clothes,
- the wife through the bowl-of-water ritual,
- the wife through removing the head pad,
- the slave wife,
- the servant wife,
- the captured wife,
- the momentary wife.
𝓑𝓾𝓭𝓭𝓱𝓪 𝓗𝓪𝓭 𝓤𝓷𝓮𝓺𝓾𝓲𝓿𝓸𝓬𝓪𝓵𝓵𝔂 𝓓𝓮𝓬𝓵𝓪𝓻𝓮𝓭 𝓣𝓱𝓪𝓽
𝓐𝓷𝓪𝓽𝓽ā 𝓜𝓮𝓪𝓷𝓼 𝓣𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓣𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓘𝓼
- Iᴅᴇᴀ ᴏꜰ Sᴏᴜʟ ɪs Oᴜᴛᴄᴏᴍᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴀɴ Uᴛᴛᴇʀʟʏ Fᴏᴏʟɪsʜ Vɪᴇᴡ
V. Nanananda
𝓐𝓷𝓪𝓽𝓽ā 𝓜𝓮𝓪𝓷𝓼 𝓣𝓱𝓪𝓽 𝓣𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓘𝓼
- Nᴏ sᴜᴄʜ ᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴀs ᴀ Sᴇʟғ, Sᴏᴜʟ, Eɢᴏ, Sᴘɪʀɪᴛ, ᴏʀ Āᴛᴍᴀɴ
V. Buddhādasa
Re: 10 kind of wives
OP wrote
I mean all parties concerned. What is VA and VvA? It is hard to figure out what exactly you are asking.
Is that a Theravada document? Does it write of 10 kinds of husbands too?
I am curious, it would be fun to read of the 10 kinds of husbands.
Sorry just noticed that Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta answered. Thank you, can you find a listing on 10 kinds of husbands pl. under
There are ten kinds of husbands:
the bought husband,
the husband by choice,
the husband through property,
the husband through clothes,
the husband through the bowl-of-water ritual,
the husband through removing the hat,
the slave husband,
the servant husband,
the captured husband,
the momentary husband.
With love
PS I do not understand what momentary wife means? can SDA pl. explain?
Do you mean can one person share 10 wives? I guess if they all agree this is possible,Can anyone share 10 kind of wives
In VA and VvA?
I mean all parties concerned. What is VA and VvA? It is hard to figure out what exactly you are asking.
Is that a Theravada document? Does it write of 10 kinds of husbands too?
I am curious, it would be fun to read of the 10 kinds of husbands.
Sorry just noticed that Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta answered. Thank you, can you find a listing on 10 kinds of husbands pl. under
If one is not available maybe we can come up with one, like this, not deviating too much.5. The training rule on matchmaking
There are ten kinds of husbands:
the bought husband,
the husband by choice,
the husband through property,
the husband through clothes,
the husband through the bowl-of-water ritual,
the husband through removing the hat,
the slave husband,
the servant husband,
the captured husband,
the momentary husband.
With love
PS I do not understand what momentary wife means? can SDA pl. explain?
Re: 10 kind of wives
I believe VA is the commentary to the Vinaya, (Vinaya Aṭṭhakathā) , called Samanta Pāsādikā.
VvA would be the commentary to the Vimāna Vatthu. (I believe this work exists in English translation, published by PTS).
(the 'A' stands for aṭṭhakathā, which means 'commentary' in Pāli)
VvA would be the commentary to the Vimāna Vatthu. (I believe this work exists in English translation, published by PTS).
(the 'A' stands for aṭṭhakathā, which means 'commentary' in Pāli)
Re: 10 kind of wives
Reading what Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta wrote, more carefully
It does not make sense to me, that monks would engage in match making. Would it not distract them from
meditation?
Best
Does that mean monks who engage in match making get suspended? I've read in a sutta that monks should not engage in astrology, not quite sure weather that list included match making.The chapter on offenses entailing suspension
5. The training rule on matchmaking
It does not make sense to me, that monks would engage in match making. Would it not distract them from
meditation?
Best
Re: 10 kind of wives
Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 5:13 pm Theravāda Vinaya / Mahāvibhaṅga / Saṅghādisesakaṇḍa / Sañcarittasikkhāpada
Theravāda Collection on Monastic Law
The monks’ rules and their analysis
The chapter on offenses entailing suspension
5. The training rule on matchmaking
Sañcaritta—Bhikkhu Brahmali
- numbers added
https://suttacentral.net/pli-tv-bu-vb-ss5/en/brahmali...
There are ten kinds of wives:
- the bought wife,
- the wife by choice,
- the wife through property,
- the wife through clothes,
- the wife through the bowl-of-water ritual,
- the wife through removing the head pad,
- the slave wife,
- the servant wife,
- the captured wife,
- the momentary wife.
Thank you so much 93×
It is in Vinayå Volume 1
Bahagia Tidak Harus Selalu Bersama
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Re: 10 kind of wives
Pulsar wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 7:40 pm OP wroteDo you mean can one person share 10 wives? I guess if they all agree this is possible,Can anyone share 10 kind of wives
In VA and VvA?
I mean all parties concerned. What is VA and VvA? It is hard to figure out what exactly you are asking.
Is that a Theravada document? Does it write of 10 kinds of husbands too?
I am curious, it would be fun to read of the 10 kinds of husbands.
Sorry just noticed that Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta answered. Thank you, can you find a listing on 10 kinds of husbands pl. underIf one is not available maybe we can come up with one, like this, not deviating too much.5. The training rule on matchmaking
There are ten kinds of husbands:
the bought husband,
the husband by choice,
the husband through property,
the husband through clothes,
the husband through the bowl-of-water ritual,
the husband through removing the hat,
the slave husband,
the servant husband,
the captured husband,
the momentary husband.
With love
PS I do not understand what momentary wife means? can SDA pl. explain?
(Breaking the third precept)
1. the bought wife ---> bit*h
(Breaking the third precept)
2. the wife by choice ---> samenleven
3. the wife through property ---> Concubine
(Breaking the third precept)
4. the wife through clothes ---> samenleven (this person used to be a tramp [VA])
5. the wife through the bowl-of-water ritual ---> samenleven (Only during wartime [when the law dies]) it can be a wife from (1) free people marry (2) slave
6. the wife through removing the head pad ---> Has been divorced by a judge (in court)
7. the slave wife ---> handmaid
(Breaking the third precept)
8. the servant wife ---> Mistress
9. the captured wife ---> become handmaid because (the country) lost the war (with another country)
(Breaking the third precept)
10. the momentary wife ---> sham marriage (bit*h)
Bahagia Tidak Harus Selalu Bersama
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
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Re: 10 kind of wives
which kind of wife do you guys prefer out of the 10 choices ?
Re: 10 kind of wives
the momentary wife sounds the bestbpallister wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 11:38 pm which kind of wife do you guys prefer out of the 10 choices ?
Sort of individual is experienced in the here & now, and for the most part barely appears for a moment.
Lonaphala Sutta
There is always an official executioner. If you try to take his place, It is like trying to be a master carpenter and cutting wood. If you try to cut wood like a master carpenter, you will only hurt your hand.
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Re: 10 kind of wives
What's samenleven?Gwi wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 10:29 pmPulsar wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 7:40 pm OP wroteDo you mean can one person share 10 wives? I guess if they all agree this is possible,Can anyone share 10 kind of wives
In VA and VvA?
I mean all parties concerned. What is VA and VvA? It is hard to figure out what exactly you are asking.
Is that a Theravada document? Does it write of 10 kinds of husbands too?
I am curious, it would be fun to read of the 10 kinds of husbands.
Sorry just noticed that Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta answered. Thank you, can you find a listing on 10 kinds of husbands pl. underIf one is not available maybe we can come up with one, like this, not deviating too much.5. The training rule on matchmaking
There are ten kinds of husbands:
the bought husband,
the husband by choice,
the husband through property,
the husband through clothes,
the husband through the bowl-of-water ritual,
the husband through removing the hat,
the slave husband,
the servant husband,
the captured husband,
the momentary husband.
With love
PS I do not understand what momentary wife means? can SDA pl. explain?
(Breaking the third precept)
1. the bought wife ---> bit*h
(Breaking the third precept)
2. the wife by choice ---> samenleven
3. the wife through property ---> Concubine
(Breaking the third precept)
4. the wife through clothes ---> samenleven (this person used to be a tramp [VA])
5. the wife through the bowl-of-water ritual ---> samenleven (Only during wartime [when the law dies]) it can be a wife from (1) free people marry (2) slave
6. the wife through removing the head pad ---> Has been divorced by a judge (in court)
7. the slave wife ---> handmaid
(Breaking the third precept)
8. the servant wife ---> Mistress
9. the captured wife ---> become handmaid because (the country) lost the war (with another country)
(Breaking the third precept)
10. the momentary wife ---> sham marriage (bit*h)
Also, given that the 3rd precept doesn't prohibit sexual relations between husband and wives, and presumably, we cannot assume all such sex for some category of wives is non-consensual, what basis do you have to so arbitrary make certain wives breaking 3rd precepts? And why don't you put that label onto slave wives?
In Islam, there's such a thing as temporary marriage, which can last for very short periods to 99 years. If a two people wants to have sex, but not start a family, they can get just get such temporary marriage so that there's no premarital sex issue.
In Buddhism, there's no issue with premarital sex, but responsibly, ideally, it's better with a relationship established rather than casual sex. There's of course the usual risk of STD, unwanted pregnancy, etc. And to avoid breaking 3rd precepts, ideally both sides are not married/ attached, or have consent of their partners if they are.
Re: 10 kind of wives
DiamondNgXZ wrote: ↑Tue Sep 21, 2021 1:38 amWhat's samenleven?Gwi wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 10:29 pmPulsar wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 7:40 pm OP wrote Do you mean can one person share 10 wives? I guess if they all agree this is possible,
I mean all parties concerned. What is VA and VvA? It is hard to figure out what exactly you are asking.
Is that a Theravada document? Does it write of 10 kinds of husbands too?
I am curious, it would be fun to read of the 10 kinds of husbands.
Sorry just noticed that Sabbe_Dhamma_Anatta answered. Thank you, can you find a listing on 10 kinds of husbands pl. under
If one is not available maybe we can come up with one, like this, not deviating too much.
There are ten kinds of husbands:
the bought husband,
the husband by choice,
the husband through property,
the husband through clothes,
the husband through the bowl-of-water ritual,
the husband through removing the hat,
the slave husband,
the servant husband,
the captured husband,
the momentary husband.
With love
PS I do not understand what momentary wife means? can SDA pl. explain?
(Breaking the third precept)
1. the bought wife ---> bit*h
(Breaking the third precept)
2. the wife by choice ---> samenleven
3. the wife through property ---> Concubine
(Breaking the third precept)
4. the wife through clothes ---> samenleven (this person used to be a tramp [VA])
5. the wife through the bowl-of-water ritual ---> samenleven (Only during wartime [when the law dies]) it can be a wife from (1) free people marry (2) slave
6. the wife through removing the head pad ---> Has been divorced by a judge (in court)
7. the slave wife ---> handmaid
(Breaking the third precept)
8. the servant wife ---> Mistress
9. the captured wife ---> become handmaid because (the country) lost the war (with another country)
(Breaking the third precept)
10. the momentary wife ---> sham marriage (bit*h)
Also, given that the 3rd precept doesn't prohibit sexual relations between husband and wives, and presumably, we cannot assume all such sex for some category of wives is non-consensual, what basis do you have to so arbitrary make certain wives breaking 3rd precepts? And why don't you put that label onto slave wives?
In Islam, there's such a thing as temporary marriage, which can last for very short periods to 99 years. If a two people wants to have sex, but not start a family, they can get just get such temporary marriage so that there's no premarital sex issue.
In Buddhism, there's no issue with premarital sex, but responsibly, ideally, it's better with a relationship established rather than casual sex. There's of course the usual risk of STD, unwanted pregnancy, etc. And to avoid breaking 3rd precepts, ideally both sides are not married/ attached, or have consent of their partners if they are.
No label = Not violate
Samenleven = Cohabitation = breaking the third precept
temporary marriage come from non-sunni.
Sunni like original Islam, same with Theravādå,
An original.
temporary marriage = haram (in Sunni)
Bahagia Tidak Harus Selalu Bersama
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."
Dhammapadå 370
"Tinggalkanlah 5 (belantara) dan patahkan 5 (belenggu rendah),
Serta kembangkan 5 potensi (4 iddhipādā + 1 ussoḷhi).
Bhikkhu yang telah menaklukkan 5 kungkungan (belenggu tinggi),
Lebih layak disebut 'orang yang telah mengarungi air baih (saṃsārå)'."