SDC wrote: ↑Sun Apr 04, 2021 11:58 pm
- What about how he received permission from his parents?
The sutta presents us with two permissions:
1- Permission from parents
2- Permission from the Buddha to visit his parents
The two permissions are inline with other aspects of the teachings. We are taught that killing a Buddha, or killing father or mother eliminates any possibility for liberation and assures migration into lower destinations. Being mindful of not going lower realms seems a necessary requirement for going higher.
Concerns and assurances:
The parents, at the beginning, resisted giving him the permission. When we look with sympathy, parallels can be found between being a householder, volition, and death. The parents, by the power they have been granted by the Buddha to give permission, perceive death as a certainty and as an annihilation of their power (volition) to prevented it. The permission was eventually given upon receiving assurances from friends, that his choices is either to die or to go forth, and by going forth, there is the possibility of returning if he does not enjoy what he sees there. The certainty of death, as well as the hope for their son's return (presented as a promise), helped convince the parents to let him go. Had ven Raṭṭhapāla had any doubts of his ability to revisit his parents after going forth, he would not have been able to simultaneously be faithful to the promise of returning, and going forth. As such, i take this as demonstrating his ability to distinguish the difference between the destruction of craving and annihilationism.
After fulfilling the goal of the holy life, it is time for him to fulfill his promise and visit his parents. Another permission is now needed, that is, the permission of the wise. The assurance here is being incapable of abandoning the training and returning to the low life. As such, the Buddha assisted him in fulfilling his promise, but with a well-guarded mind that is vividly displayed throughout his interactions as per the rest of the sutta.
I might answer the two other questions when i have time.
Thanks for taking lead on this SDC

And the Blessed One addressed the bhikkhus, saying: "Behold now, bhikkhus, I exhort you: All compounded things are subject to vanish. Strive with earnestness!"
This was the last word of the Tathagata.