You don’t need to do asubha to realize this is a bad move. The danger is clear. You run the risk of contributing to ruining a marriage and a family.bpallister wrote: ↑Fri Sep 24, 2021 4:37 pm I’m going to think of her pooping, then I will think of her innards. (Not the inner thigh or vagina)
My co-worker texted me her address...
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“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
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I’m just gonna tell her I’m an incel
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You don’t owe her any explanation. Not responding already implies that you’re not interested. Just be cordial and professional around her at work. At most just tell her you’re not interested in that type of relationship.
“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
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At this point, maybe you're just a cel, not an incel.
Choosing the high road here is choosing voluntary, not involuntary, celibacy with regards to this fast and loose lady who messaged you this material.
"Any sex" does not equal "good sex." Even if you met her, morality aside, it would likely be awkward and weird. I can't imagine it would be good. Likely she thinks you are a fellow player and has a bunch of false ideas in her head about you. That's the only reason why I can imagine someone being so bold with no context. You don't want your first sexual experience to be like that.
Choosing the high road here is choosing voluntary, not involuntary, celibacy with regards to this fast and loose lady who messaged you this material.
"Any sex" does not equal "good sex." Even if you met her, morality aside, it would likely be awkward and weird. I can't imagine it would be good. Likely she thinks you are a fellow player and has a bunch of false ideas in her head about you. That's the only reason why I can imagine someone being so bold with no context. You don't want your first sexual experience to be like that.
What is the Uncreated?
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
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Solid post, C.Coëmgenu wrote: ↑Fri Sep 24, 2021 8:39 pm At this point, maybe you're just a cel, not an incel.
Choosing the high road here is choosing voluntary, not involuntary, celibacy with regards to this fast and loose lady who messaged you this material.
"Any sex" does not equal "good sex." Even if you met her, morality aside, it would likely be awkward and weird. I can't imagine it would be good. Likely she thinks you are a fellow player and has a bunch of false ideas in her head about you. That's the only reason why I can imagine someone being so bold with no context. You don't want your first sexual experience to be like that.
“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
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Mercy buckets.
What is the Uncreated?
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
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I’ve had many sexual experiences in the past
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Sorry, I must have misunderstood what "incel" meant.
What is the Uncreated?
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
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currently in a state of inceldom but have not always been
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An address with no explanation means nothing. Maybe she just wants to know if you live nearby if you tend to arrive and leave at the same time. You can save some money on gas by arriving together. I have two co-workers who live very close to me now, and one one of the three of us drives. Unfortunately, we have a feeling he is going to quit soon. He has two jobs and likes the other one a lot more.
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Or maybe she sent the text to the wrong person by accident. This even happens with nude photos, which is said to be really embarrassing. There could be someone out there who was expecting that address who didn't get it and wonders why not.
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In the days of my youth, before i learned what it means to be a hu-man, i used to try my often inept hand at chasing girls/ladies. i got a handful of 'yes', but more 'no'. When i stopped chasing ladies, i said many more "no" to them then i ever received. Its OK to say "no" to women (despite they & society thinking the answer to women must always be "yes"). Like ordinary men, ordinary women are just as clueless and, in many ways, far more stupider, because the consequences for them are far more greater.
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There is no shortage of idiots out there, that's for sure!
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DooDoot wrote: ↑Sat Sep 25, 2021 11:58 pmIn the days of my youth, before i learned what it means to be a hu-man, i used to try my often inept hand at chasing girls/ladies. i got a handful of 'yes', but more 'no'. When i stopped chasing ladies, i said many more "no" to them then i ever received. Its OK to say "no" to women (despite they & society thinking the answer to women must always be "yes"). Like ordinary men, ordinary women are just as clueless and, in many ways, far more stupider, because the consequences for them are far more greater.