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Coming back to Dhamma

Post by joch_ixtab »

Hello, I go by joch here, 27 years of age, male

After a loooong journey of wandering around trying to find my Self/straighten my relationship with God/find a ritual practice and ishta devata that is suitable for me/find a sense of communitas amongst spiritually minded people in Hindu spaces from Advaita Vedanta to Śaivism I’ve made my way back to trying to get started in the learning and practice of Dhamma.

It’s difficult for me to explain why I’ve suddenly made this choice. But I’ll have a go at it. All this time I’ve been struggling with chronic anxiety and clinical depression for which I’ve been hospitalized for several times in the past and have been in the process of recovering from. I’m okay now, but it’s around this time that I’m asking myself what will really help. What will really lead to moral and spiritual progress and unshaken peace of mind.

Ritual propitiation helps but was hit and miss. Sometimes I felt the presence of the deity, other times a sense of anger and separative grief at not getting the experience I arrived for. Meditation on the Self helped me through so many things. But could backfire just as easily in short term situations where I would not be able to find my sense of “I” or at the very worst suffer from derealization.

But what really helped me was mindfulness of my surroundings, my own body, and my mind and a propensity towards moral awareness of my thoughts and actions. I began to be compelled to read more about the Thai Forest Tradition of Luang Por Chah, Luang Por Mun etc., which I had explored briefly before from a more academic standpoint. And what I found squared well with personal experience. I began to notice which beliefs and practices I adopted were and weren’t conductive towards morality, overall wellbeing and spiritual life.

I’m continuing to learn more and am intrigued every step of the way. That there is a way out of this, no one is coming to save me and no person is beyond saving themselves.

I hope to this develop the tools conductive towards saving myself. Am determined not to end here, and look forward to the journey ahead.

Thank you all, and glad to be here!

Metta :anjali:
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Welcome to Dhamma Wheel, joch. I hope you find what you are looking for. :anjali:
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Welcome to DW!

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Alll the best and welcome :candle:
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Liberation is the inevitable fruit of the path and is bound to blossom forth when there is steady and persistent practice. The only requirements for reaching the final goal are two: to start and to continue. If these requirements are met there is no doubt the goal will be attained. This is the Dhamma, the undeviating law.

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Post by retrofuturist »

Greetings Joch,

Welcome to Dhamma Wheel.

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Hello welcome to dhammawheel :anjali:
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