Jack19990101 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 19, 2022 2:33 am
Suppression vs Endurance - endurance is much sturdy quality over suppression. If you cant endure, suppress it. If you can't suppress it, avoid it.
If you cant endure, there is no eroding. there will be no cessation.
Sutta reference?
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With mettā.
PS: Sure, there is a progression on the path.
However, to my knowledge, akusala dhamma (such as sensual desire, ill-will etc.) are to be
consistently abandoned. The suttas don't talk about enduring or tolerating akusala dhamma.
There are things to be endured/tolerated: heat, cold, the touch of flies, mosquitoes, wind, sun, & reptiles; ill-spoken, unwelcome words & painful bodily feelings. But never akusala dhamma in your mind.
(Things to be avoided are wild elephants, wild horses, wild dogs, etc.) See MN 2. In other words, the things to be endured, avoided and abandoned are different.
But if you know of a sutta that contradicts this, please feel free to share.
sidenote: a non-returner doesn't have to abandon or suppress sensual desire or ill-will, because for them, such thoughts don't arise anymore. So there is that progression.