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thepea wrote: Sun Aug 21, 2022 6:24 pm
Sam Vara wrote: Sun Aug 21, 2022 6:18 pm
thepea wrote: Sun Aug 21, 2022 5:57 pm

I’m saying they are meant to be developed inwardly, then a by-product will be external.
What does "developed inwardly" mean? If it means, as you say, "to be practiced within the body. Not using the sense doors looking outwardly" then presumably one is speaking to one's body-parts? And if Right Speech is, as you say, "silence", then that means one does not talk to one's body parts? Most people will be practising Right Speech, then, as few talk to their own bodies.
Do you teach speaking in satipatthana?
What's that got to do with the topic of Right Speech? Are you saying that the N8FP is not possible outside of some practice you call satipatthana?
Your body is your temple, within this is all required.
So you only have to talk to your spleen and your clavicle and your duodenum, and you've got Right Speech sorted. Do they ever, erm...how can I put it?... answer back?
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Sam Vara wrote: Sun Aug 21, 2022 6:31 pm
thepea wrote: Sun Aug 21, 2022 6:24 pm
Sam Vara wrote: Sun Aug 21, 2022 6:18 pm

What does "developed inwardly" mean? If it means, as you say, "to be practiced within the body. Not using the sense doors looking outwardly" then presumably one is speaking to one's body-parts? And if Right Speech is, as you say, "silence", then that means one does not talk to one's body parts? Most people will be practising Right Speech, then, as few talk to their own bodies.



What's that got to do with the topic of Right Speech? Are you saying that the N8FP is not possible outside of some practice you call satipatthana?
Your body is your temple, within this is all required.
So you only have to talk to your spleen and your clavicle and your duodenum, and you've got Right Speech sorted. Do they ever, erm...how can I put it?... answer back?
Ummm... perhaps when you sit you speak to your spleen.
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Re: Right speech

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thepea wrote: Fri Aug 12, 2022 1:57 am Is speech violent?
Can speech hurt feelings?
There is the harm done to oneself through the affliction of greed, anger, or delusion before the words were actually spoken. In more ways than one IMO.
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thepea wrote: Fri Aug 12, 2022 1:57 am Is speech violent?
Can speech hurt feelings?
Yes, and yes. So mind what you say. :tongue:
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Spiny Norman wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 9:08 am
thepea wrote: Fri Aug 12, 2022 1:57 am Is speech violent?
Can speech hurt feelings?
Yes, and yes. So mind what you say. :tongue:
So the air puffs vibrating off my tongue are “violent and hurtful”???
These letters on the keyboard are violent when arranged in specific order? Who determines this order?
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Tl21G3lVl wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 7:19 am
thepea wrote: Fri Aug 12, 2022 1:57 am Is speech violent?
Can speech hurt feelings?
There is the harm done to oneself through the affliction of greed, anger, or delusion before the words were actually spoken. In more ways than one IMO.
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thepea wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:12 am
Spiny Norman wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 9:08 am
thepea wrote: Fri Aug 12, 2022 1:57 am Is speech violent?
Can speech hurt feelings?
Yes, and yes. So mind what you say. :tongue:
So the air puffs vibrating off my tongue are “violent and hurtful”???
These letters on the keyboard are violent when arranged in specific order? Who determines this ?
Although rightly spoken, if my person would call good householder a fool, he might determine the specific arranged order of pixels as "harmful thought toward me", or does he already get's an idea of gotten very misleaded? In that case he might take it with a lot of gratitude, and forgets to make use of it to defend his previous "so is it, not otherwise" dangerous view, disregarding precepts first.
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Re: Right speech

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thepea wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:12 am Who determines this order?
You seem to have trouble with causing harm


And having accountability


The fact of being responsible for what you do
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Right Thought?
Internal speech.
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Tl21G3lVl wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 8:54 pm
Right Thought?
Internal speech.
What is internal speech?
Are talking of monkey mind, or talking to oneself?
If you are silent then you must be discussing thoughts.
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cappuccino wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 2:24 pm
thepea wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:12 am Who determines this order?
You seem to have trouble with causing harm


And having accountability


The fact of being responsible for what you do
Who have I harmed?
I have the right to face my accuser.
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Re: Right speech

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Johann wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 12:14 pm
thepea wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:12 am
Spiny Norman wrote: Mon Aug 22, 2022 9:08 am

Yes, and yes. So mind what you say. :tongue:
So the air puffs vibrating off my tongue are “violent and hurtful”???
These letters on the keyboard are violent when arranged in specific order? Who determines this ?
Although rightly spoken, if my person would call good householder a fool, he might determine the specific arranged order of pixels as "harmful thought toward me", or does he already get's an idea of gotten very misleaded? In that case he might take it with a lot of gratitude, and forgets to make use of it to defend his previous "so is it, not otherwise" dangerous view, disregarding precepts first.
If you want to call me a fool, it is you who is responsible for your speech. If you want to call me misleaded, again it’s you who is responsible for this. I am not foolish or misguided, so.....
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thepea wrote: Tue Aug 23, 2022 12:05 am Who have I harmed?
You keep speaking about harm…


I am merely noticing
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cappuccino wrote: Tue Aug 23, 2022 12:15 am
thepea wrote: Tue Aug 23, 2022 12:05 am Who have I harmed?
You keep speaking about harm…


I am merely noticing
I’m asking is speech harmful or violent to others?
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Re: Right speech

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thepea wrote: Tue Aug 23, 2022 12:41 am I’m asking is speech harmful or violent to others?
For example, cake is good for the soul, bad for the body


Samsara is like this
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