i have a craving for a woman at the gym

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Mahabrahma wrote: Wed Feb 01, 2023 2:59 am maybe treat her to some Buddhism you know.
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Mahabrahma wrote: Wed Feb 01, 2023 2:59 am :spy: <----- this is you at the gym.

Just be kind and talk to her, don't attach yourself, and maybe treat her to some Buddhism you know. After all you could save her from the Saha World, or maybe she can save you in the Spiritual Tradition she follows. True Love. What a guy...
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bpallister wrote: Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:19 pm what should i do, friends? :anjali:
Don't make a big deal out of it. Enjoy your life a little too.
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Thanks Tamdrin :anjali:
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She was not there tonight, friends. i had to settle for looking at other beings in the gym. :hello:
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i fear she is cheating on me at other gyms, with other gym bros. :(
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She'll be back.

Love works in Mysterious Ways.

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Mahabrahma wrote: Sun Mar 12, 2023 11:44 pm She'll be back.

Love works in Mysterious Ways.

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Thank you, friend. You are a gentleman and a scholar. :woohoo:
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bpallister wrote: Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:19 pm what should i do, friends? :anjali:
Well, it depends on what you mean by "craving" !

If you mean "lust", :rolleye: then like any other animal reproductive reactions you can satisfy this craving by introducing yourself, asking for a date, and after a time determine if her feelings are mutual. If she is a professional sex worker, then the approach will be simply a matter of financial transaction. Otherwise, keep your interactions courteous and respectful.

If you mean "Honorable Intentions to perhaps Marry and have children", I would suggest introducing yourself, dating, asking to meet her family, and asking for her hand in marriage from her parent (usually the father) or guardian, coming to a mutual agreement, and saving up for a very pricey engagement and wedding ring. :toast:
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