i have a craving for a woman at the gym
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i have a craving for a woman at the gym
what should i do, friends?
Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
Are you celibate? If yes, ignore her.
If not, talk to her, but not while she’s working out. Most women don’t appreciate that.
If not, talk to her, but not while she’s working out. Most women don’t appreciate that.
“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
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Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
i am an incel. i call her my gym wife. her eyes are like two emeralds
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I thought you were going to change from involuntary to voluntary.bpallister wrote: ↑Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:44 pm i am an incel. i call her my gym wife. her eyes are like two emeralds
“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
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Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
one more rejection and i'm there!SDC wrote: ↑Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:56 pmI thought you were going to change from involuntary to voluntary.bpallister wrote: ↑Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:44 pm i am an incel. i call her my gym wife. her eyes are like two emeralds
Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
bpallister wrote: ↑Wed Sep 07, 2022 12:00 amone more rejection and i'm there!SDC wrote: ↑Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:56 pmI thought you were going to change from involuntary to voluntary.bpallister wrote: ↑Tue Sep 06, 2022 11:44 pm i am an incel. i call her my gym wife. her eyes are like two emeralds
“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
No. I have done that before, but I talked to her when she was on the elliptical machine. This way she will stay there when you talked to her.
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And what is right speech? Abstaining from lying, from divisive speech, from abusive speech, & from idle chatter: This is called right speech.
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“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3
Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
What everyone else does: deal with it.
People see attractive people on the streets every day, at the gym every day, etc., and they just move on. It's like lusting over a fancy car you can't afford. Maybe you can afford the car. Say "Hi." If she doesn't show any interest, move on, and try not to accidentally leer at her when she's doing something attractive at the gym.
What is the Uncreated?
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
Sublime & free, what is that obscured Eternity?
It is the Undying, the Bright, the Isle.
It is an Ocean, a Secret: Reality.
Both life and oblivion, it is Nirvāṇa.
Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
Contemplate on Anicca, Dukkha and Anatta
Read Vitakka Santana Sutta
https://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/aut ... el021.html
Or there are plenty dating advise in Youtube.
We all are expert in giving advice.
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Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
nothing is always easy
Re: i have a craving for a woman at the gym
Treat her in a way that won’t make you feel ashamed later on that day. That is the best gauge for whether or not you have been decent to another: how you feel later in the night when you are alone, sober and trying to fall asleep.bpallister wrote: ↑Wed Sep 07, 2022 1:52 am should i tie her to it with some resistance bands, or would that be too forward?
All in all, Coemgenu gave the best advice in this thread.
“Life is swept along, short is the life span; no shelters exist for one who has reached old age. Seeing clearly this danger in death, a seeker of peace should drop the world’s bait.” SN 1.3