The only best way is just: fasting routinemario92 wrote: ↑Thu May 20, 2021 1:45 am Namaste since i ended school in december 2017 i had tried to be celibate, but never succeed for a long time, at this time i think it is not wise to keep following that path. Problems with acne had arisen and also digestive problems, sleep problems and fatigue. I had tried asubha and meditation but i am still subject to desire as still watch facebook (and youtube and also have instagram due to bussiness issue) to counter atack disatisfaction and discontent, also everyday beautiful ladies enter my store, so im bombarded everyday. I also have problems with pornography, but i do my best to avoid using the phone. I want to ask some questions how do 5 precept practitioner deal with desire? Is taoist sex the only way to suceed as layman(like retaining seminal luquid and thus having good health)? My father tells me that i should look for a girlfriend, but social and economic conditions along the fear of getting sexual disease, having an unwanted pregnancy also arise in my mind, and also that woman can be very evil (from experience), or that you dont know if the other person is married (some can lie). Also, do desire diminish if i have girlfriend? Thanks I think one of the main problems is bad health.
Prevention is better than cure.